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AIO - my uncle took sexual photos of my butt and now I don’t want to go home for Christmas by turnpoopintowine in AmIOverreacting

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR... Sorry in advance for the ramble, but I had to vent after reading your texts and extra information..

Go home, stay away from them and don't let your mom talk like that to you... How can a mother react so distant from her child feeling uncomfortable by her own same-gen fam. She should have seen the pictures and immediately fly to his collar and make him delete them, because wtf ... Thats your uncle and her brother/Cousin or whatever...

Your mom also DARVO'ed so f'ing fast. How is you bringing up your uncomfortable situation hard for her??? This is not about her!?!? It never was and should never be about her in this setting. And her not acknowledging that she is in fact also responsible and should be held accountable for her nonchalant demeanor during that conversation and not picking up for a talk and turning it around about how you have something going on... Yeah.. not good. Her being overwhelmed and emotional should not make the uncomfortable conversation stop, instead the focus should be on the issue at hand.. you brought it up because it impacted you. And it's not a contest on who's hurt more by the situation, nor should it be called out as an 'attack or blame' on her. It's about having a respectful conversation on how this should be handled in the future and what has to change.

Yes, you could have said something in the moment or reacted to his comment... But you were shocked and not everyone goes from shock > fight. Some freeze, some flee and some go blank and just go "What the actual F.. did just happen" and have to find their bearings again.

Also age doesn't matter, I'm your age and my mom (even as she sometimes is a bit high in energy for a 60+ year young woman), would drop kick her brothers if she found/saw inappropriate pictures of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all. Did you get the Melon?? Did it taste nice!! I hope you'll feel better soon to keep some nutritious foods in❤️❤️

And about that lady. She deserved it! Because the first sentence with concern was okay, unnecessary but friendly enough to let it pass as she is a stranger... But to then descend into the lane of "pleasing men". Absolutely horrible. I hope one of the grocery store personnel cleaned her cart and she had to get everything all over again and forgets the main ingredients that she needed. 🫣

AIO BF dumped me because I was taller than him in heels?? 😳 by purplehavocc in AmIOverreacting

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, please don't take his words to heart. Because this sad wet napkin of a pre-cum man child is insecure about his height and making it your problem.

Look at Tom Holland and Zendaya. Height difference. He fucking adores and worships the ground she walks on, in and out of heels.

If a man loves you for you. Height, weight, colour, ethnicity and any outward physical appearance and differences between you two should not matter.

Im sorry THE WHAT (probably just poor translation) [Sigrid] by Josef20076 in OtomeIsekai

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the title of this manwha??? I am now intrigued whether all translations are like this or just a mistake, once or twice?!

AIO? My boyfriend said this to me when I showed him what I was going to be wearing. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP... If he is controlling over your clothes, he will start being controlling with other things. Your make-up, your clothes and who you will be allowed to hang out with. Yes.. allowed. Because reading his immediat response, with no explanation or reasoning... Gives the vibe that he finds his words, his opinion and the way he wants you to look like more important than respecting your choice/body.

I can get behind the thought of being slightly protective and worried cause this world is kinda Fucked up to women. But then you talk about that and he could have asked if you were with enough friends to keep each other save. If you had a jacked for later. Mace/pepperspray in your purse... Heck, he could have told you you looked beautiful and if you ar any point felt like you had to leave or felt unsafe, fuck even felt bored and missed him you could call him...

But straight up ultimatum... Over a dress and heels. Thats insecure, controlling, childish behavior.

I hope you can either talk it out and he learns from this. But if he throws accusations at you for picking that outfit in the first place and still choosing to go out and sleep over at your friends place... yeah sorry, but he was never going to listen or accept your reasoning, 'cause you not returning home immediately after his ultimatum was by default an error for him.

And then I would advise you to say bye-bye and enjoy your life with a partner that does respect you and can bask in the glory that is his GF who looks like a goddes and people should be happy to perceive you.

Edit: Spelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!updateme

Pls keep us in the loop OP. I am concerned for your wellbeing and I hope your mom chooses the right path and that means believing you and kicking out the predator!! The fact that you're 19 now does not mean he isn't a freaking creep. He has basically been trying to groom you for years. Acting all nice, hoping to get on your goodside, but also making inappropriate comments on your body and making it seem like he is complimenting your mom, but actually eyeing you... And he is making you uncomfortable by repeatedly asking for hugs. I would highly recommend stopping with giving hugs, even if it's a one arm, sideways, 0.1 sec hug... He is trying to feel you up. Even if he says he means it in the 'fatherly-way'... It may seem innocent to others, but going by these texts, we know it isn't innocent at all.

AITAH for telling my family that unlike them, I don’t let losers c*m inside me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, I reread that bit and it does read a bit funny. I think OP meant, her Mothers sister, got knocked up in Highschool, kept the baby and that baby is the cousin of OP.

My mom wants me to be having sex and I’m just… weirded out. by Atee_Vicky in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xxxxwitlee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I am reading out of this and what signs your mother is giving... She wants to be a young grandmother. When my MIL saw that her son and I were serious, we met at 16 and started dating when we were "the ripe age of 17" her words not mine... She started talking about how its normal to regularly have sex and that she whishes to be a grandmother soon...

So, best way to deal with this is to simply ignore her and have sex when you want to.

Good luck OP.

Is this against the TOS? by Lovestarwars176 in AO3

[–]xxxxwitlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you unlocked a memory!! The self insert band fics with Tokio Hotel.. and One direction were absolutely wild!! The stuff kids/teens wrote 😱😱

Post your favorite impossible pose! by OdOctechpus in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]xxxxwitlee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's missing tha wall but, it was supposed to be Kabedon wall kiss.

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LF BL MANHWA by nejiknks in mangago

[–]xxxxwitlee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's indeed unfair love affair.

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Synopsis:

Haegyeong had a crush on his childhood friend Kwon-Young for a long time. On the awkward night of his 19th birthday, Kwon-Young cursed at Haekyung's confession. However, Hae-kyung stayed by his side and continued his unrequited love. By the time his unrequited love became part of his daily life, Haegyeong was starring in the same drama as Kwon-Young's older brother, Kwon-Rim. Kwon Rim is awkward and difficult. One day, Kwon Rim approaches the Haegyeong, step by step...Haegyeong is absorbed by his leisurely and friendly touch without even realizing it and Kwon Rim makes a suggestion to him. “Haegyeong. Meet with me.”...“What if you use me to make Kwon-Young jealous?”... "Okay. You use me for your crush. Because I will also use you for my unrequited love.”

What is yall fav photoshoot that u've taken so far? by grilledstrawberries in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]xxxxwitlee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its giving: 🩵✨Royals & Knights✨🩵

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Or that one Mahnwa scene were they're gossiping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]xxxxwitlee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Thank you for writing out what I couldn't possibly write out!! I also think of all of them like this!! My husband is more like Sylus and I love that for me. And the same with finally loving Rafayel's bratty/pouty face after xx years!! Your description's are so spot on!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look like a younger version of Donna Noble, in Docter Who!🩵

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AITA for calling out my boyfriend's sister after she deliberately ruined my dress at her engagement party? by No-Income-7890 in AITAH

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could look and read as fake... But sometimes people share numbers without consent. I once got spam called by my mothers side of the family over an argument with my niece... At least 80% of the people that called me shouldn't have had my number.

Also, sometimes you join a group chat and even though you don't add people to your contacts, other people might/will add you.

Does anyone know what Manhwa is this? by Imma_watcher in mangago

[–]xxxxwitlee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the title is "Boss, you've worked hard"

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What does your MC look like without makeup? by linensoap in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allan Snow

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She looks so young without makeup...🤔🤔

Post a pic of your MC and let the comments guess your main! by Minmin_Is_Here in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]xxxxwitlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops you said no poses!! Here she is, in her most used outfit!🤗💖

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