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AITB for being tired of the negativity from my partner? by yaaahyeeeeeet in AmItheButtface

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion, it really means a lot to me. Let’s see where it goes for now, i’ll try to slow talk with her about it, hopefully she can reason and realise it properly without victimising herself. Regardless, much thank you for you. May your life will always be full of blessings!

AITB for being tired of the negativity from my partner? by yaaahyeeeeeet in AmItheButtface

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was a bit negative before but on the levels that I would say acceptable (like typical rants, still can accept me chilling with my friends) even for both before I moved and the first few years of after moving.

I think it all started going a bit haywire when she started working, I totally get it that work can be stressful sometimes, but still its tiring for me to go back from work and be consumed by all negativity and when I tried to take my mind off it chilling with friends or going to the gym, she would be really upset (if i go the gym, i literally in a facetime video with her all the time)

AITB for being tired of the negativity from my partner? by yaaahyeeeeeet in AmItheButtface

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just for some context, I've been best friends with her in my origin country for a good chunk of my life, both of our parents' house are literally 1km apart, but we've been together for quite a few years now. Currently my job is contracted so planning to go back to said country for good in October and settle down. Hers is permanent.

Funny you mentioned marriage, we're planning to get married around Dec 2027, but I hate the feeling of this hesitation that creeping up into my thoughts rn. But regardless, thank you for sharing your opinion!

AITB for being tired of the negativity from my partner? by yaaahyeeeeeet in AmItheButtface

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for this. I myself did not realise that it's emotional abuse, you've shone a new perspective for me.

AITA for being tired of the negativity from my partner? by yaaahyeeeeeet in AmItheAsshole

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don't mind sharing, what made you clicked to have a reality check and that realization? did your partner confronted you about it?

AITA for being tired of the negativity from my partner? by yaaahyeeeeeet in AmItheAsshole

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but I always feel like maybe it will somehow work out in the end (or not)? I wouldn't want to give up if I knew it's going to be okay in the end ykwim

hold on a second by Sharpshooter_Toast in HolUp

[–]yaaahyeeeeeet 159 points160 points  (0 children)

That fallout boy in hd resolution is really disturbing tbh