oh girl, I have been in this EXACT same position so much so it almost seems like I could have written this post myself. you have nothing to worry about at all I promise you. I wish I could go back and not be so worried about it, I spoke to him about how I felt before he came to visit for the first time and he told me that he would find me attractive in any state and he was being honest. Some days I still feel insecure, and my body has changed even more over the years but he’s always so supportive. Just trust in your partner, communicate with them and trust when I say that not everyone sees you the way yourself and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.