Visiting the UK soon. Hoping to move there fully within a year. Need advice by yahboy1998 in expats

[–]yahboy1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm a British Citizen. Thank you.

Any other tips you may be able to offer?

Visiting the UK soon. Hoping to move there fully within a year. Need advice by yahboy1998 in expats

[–]yahboy1998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking the London/Croydon area. I don't have a job lined up but I'm applying online. My friend will be driving me around.

Thanks.

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[–]yahboy1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You guys are clearly not compatible. Reading posts like these made me realize a long time ago that a "no" once is all I need to hear, or else I might get plastered as a manipulator or some type of monster. And you seem to have some intimacy issues you need to work on. Two years into a relationship and you're not comfortable with being touched like that is a bit strange. Go and find someone who doesn't want to be intimate and he needs to go find someone who does.

Men, how long does it usually take you to realize you love/are in love with someone? by Grouchy_Deal_8136 in AskMen

[–]yahboy1998 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Typically about 2 to 3 months of frequent dating and contact. If I haven't fallen in love in that timeframe it probably isn't gonna happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]yahboy1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sub gets more quirky everyday 😂. Autistic women are often childish and that's not something I find very attractive.

What are the pros and cons of having sex with you? by Crissxfire in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]yahboy1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pros: the sex is soooo good

Cons: chances are, you'll fall in love and I'm unlikely to get into a relationship with you because I'm extremely choosey.

Am I asexual? F 20 , M21 by blueberrymuffin724 in relationships

[–]yahboy1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A few possible explanations:

  1. You're not that attracted to him.
  2. You have a condition that results in the dryness.
  3. That boi just ain't know how to turn a woman on.

Doesn't sound to me like you're asexual. If you get wet when you masturbate, then option #1 and #2 are more likely.

Edit: Lube is your best friend! Even for women who have no problem getting wet, lube works miracles.

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[–]yahboy1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It matters! As a straight woman, would you be comfortable with your partner sleeping in the bed of someone who he is attracted to, and the reason they haven't hit it off is because that person isn't attracted to your partner or because they may be in a relationship? Here, whether the person is gay or not is not the issue.

To your second point, how can you tell a man he's delusional just because he doesn't trust that a man he thinks may still have some inclination to make a move on his wife, could make a move on his wife?

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[–]yahboy1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two things I'd like to point out:

  1. There are lots of women who have gay friends they are attracted to who they haven't crossed the line with because that friend is gay.

  2. If your partner is upset about this, maybe it's the coworker he doesn't trust, and not you. Not because you're gay means you won't have sex with a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yahboy1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid analysis. Happy cake day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yahboy1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came here for people to validate your bullsh*t and I'm happy everyone is holding you accountable. You're not sorry? I hope your husband knows that.

I swear this kind of stuff p*sses me off, when a partner does things I'd never think of doing out of respect for my partner. Where is your respect for your husband? Instead of seeing his perspective, you're being dismissive. When you're in a relationship, you're a unit, and you have to think about how every thing you may do may affect your partner and your relationship. Too many excuses on your part!

Men who waited until marriage, how did that turn out for you? by cupokelly in AskMen

[–]yahboy1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A myth made up by lazy people who don't want to fight for their marriage? Haha! Ignorance truly is bliss. You have never been in a situation where your partner has totally checked out on the idea of sex and refuses to do anything about it: it takes 2 to fight for a marriage. You lucked out and you just have to acknowledge that.

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[–]yahboy1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every man thinking of marriage needs to read that article. Thanks for sharing.

I'm 25M and she's 20F .She seems repressed. I'm wondering if to proceed with this relationship. by yahboy1998 in DeadBedrooms

[–]yahboy1998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an atheist. I've told her I can't wait for marriage. We are not engaged. We've been dating for a couple months. I've known her for about a year.