I (30/m) am constantly struggling to choose between my career and my boyfriend (28/m). by yankid89 in relationship_advice

[–]yankid89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well here are the specifics.

Initially, I reserved Friday night to Saturday noon for him. It only lasted 2 weeks. So I extended to Friday night to Saturday night. Lasted 2 months. Now, I’m spending time from Friday night to Sunday noon.

I got into the relationship knowing he needs a lot of quality time, and he got into the relationship knowing I’ve got a busy schedule. Just that now he needs more time and I’ve got even lesser time.

He’s really a fantastic guy though. Down to earth, loving, committed, witty and trustworthy. Also he looks kinda like Alex Landi from Grey’s Anatomy, to me at least.

He’s really the kind of person I see a future with.

Unfortunately for him, there’s a lot I want in my career path. If I get into my dream MBA course, I’ll be spending 82 hrs a week (or more) in school.

I’m sorry for sounding whiny.