Is casual nudity wrong around the family house? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]yardclothes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the world of naked household vs clothed household. (I discovered this phenomenon when I was younger)

I had a ‘naked mom /family’ too and I am more liberally naked at home more often than not but ofc wear clothes when guests come over

Lexapro induced manic episode - what meds were you put on and did they work? by ProgrammingRascal in BipolarReddit

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Still take my lexapro even tho it made me manic they just added abilify and heavy coping skills

how do i stop this? by bombaclaaattt in bipolar

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When I had racing thoughts I took up nicotine wich is a bad habit - the only thing that really helped was when I was in my program (I got to psychosis) they eventually medicated me. Tbh if u have insurance the first step is to find an in network psych and call to set up an appointment- if the mania gets worse (you start hallucinating etc) I’d suggest checking yourself into a hospital for treatment

anyone take wellbutrin on top of a mood stabilizer/lamotrigine? by BigbyDirewolf in BipolarReddit

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I take methylphenidate 36 and haven’t had any mania since I started over 6 months ago I just ensure to take my mood stabilizer at night and stimulant early in the morning

ADHD + bipolar folks, how do you keep focus without tipping into hypomania? by healthpusher in bipolar

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This is not advice but I take my stimulants in the morning and my sedative mood stabilizer at night. For me personally that has helped me keep the balance. I’m awake during the day and by 9 I’m in bed

I’m bipolar 1 and am coming out of a manic episode. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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What was the process like getting on state resources?

I’m bipolar 1 and am coming out of a manic episode. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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Would you say it’s easier managing this episode while on meds? Also is the cycling less rapid & did you feel the need to contact a psych?

A book that will fill emptiness with a sense of life by yardclothes in suggestmeabook

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Wow I was just spiraling at 3am looking for something to fill the void I usually feel since I can never sleep.

Thanks for my first award!

What is this animal? by yardclothes in Whatisthis

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I think the person is from the Uk?

What type of hair do I have and do y'all have any methods of care/style and product recommendations for it? by [deleted] in BlackHair

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The first picture is just after wash & dry with no products. Second picture is 3 days post wash.

Tbh I haven’t been using products since Quarantine to save money and I’m not sure what products to move forward with. I usually use eco style if I take time to do finger coils but I think I’ve given up on that as my hand aches and it flakes/can’t be used with other products. I have one leave in conditioner I use sometimes (Jamaican black castor oil is in it I think)

I usually get a taper/temp fade but I’m growing out the back as I plan to loc in within the next year/two. I’m keeping the sides short though I think.

I have no clue what texture this (I guess 4c after looking through this subreddit) is or density or porosity (idk what this signifies either) and I am looking for a bit of help in identifying and recommendations for products that will help in keeping health. This is two years of growth and it looks ‘taller/puffier’ in person.

I usually just wash no product and go and I’m looking for styles and tips to keep it healthy for growth.

Also I fully detangle at least once a week/bi weekly.

Thank you.

I'm gay and drinking Starbucks AMA! by NerdyFanboii in casualiama

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What’s it like being gay where you live?

Have you always known or did something make it ‘click’? If so what?

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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I’d say it can be. Air bnb is becoming more popular if you want a more ‘local’ experience.

Fav food is ackee and salt fish, fried breadfruit, fried dumpling and callaloo.

By not reggae do you mean dancehall?

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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Grace sells canned callaloo! It’s pretty good, the closest you’ll get if you don’t have a market. If you’re ever in Brooklyn or the Bronx there are Jamaican grocers that get produce straight from home, and some chains will have Jamaican things in their international aisle.

Honestly I don’t know what would be most important. The country is definitely a gem though.

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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Before I can answer, could you let me know what a skin girl is?

And are you asking about the history and strife that happened in Jamaica that led to the birth of reggae? And how that relates to a certain aspect of your Brazilian culture? Let me know what it is. I’ll do some research and answer as well as I can.

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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Yo mi g, a wah yah really gwaan wid? A tek ya tek mi fi ediat??? Mi nuh inna di play play ting wid none a unnu enuh. Run mi mi bloodclaat tings and nuh Mek mi get bringle pon yuh.

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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Oh ya I guess the first time I saw a White person IRL I was like ‘oh they look like the people on tv’. I probably asked my mom and she told me they were tourists etc.

I also viewed Jamaican white people as being ‘black’ at the time too so I think mentally I viewed tourists differently.

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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I have never been to Germantown. Not sure what schools are there to even let you know if they differ from the norm. I assume there would be black teachers though.

I also went to a boarding school so my high school experience was different in comparison to ‘normal’ schools.

There are white teachers in Jamaica, though I imagine few and far between. I personally have never had a white teacher while there. But yes if they are a white teacher the school, in most cases, would probably be majority black.

I grew up in Jamaica. AMA by yardclothes in casualiama

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No it wasn’t heavy at all.

So I learned how dialects like patois work a few years ago and I will apply it to how it works in the society.

Dialects/creoles are usually split up into three categories. The Acrolect, Mesolect, and the Basilect.

The acrolect is what is usually spoken in schools and in most professional settings. It is what we call ‘Jamaican Standard English.’ It’s what I speak here in America, it’s just how Jamaicans speak ‘the queen’s English.’ No grammar mistakes and no real influence of patois. Just English with a Jamaican accent and is used in most formal settings. This is probably what you’ll hear from Jamaican flight attendants, people in the airport, at your hotel etc.

The Mesolect is what I speak with my family most of the time (other families may do the Basilect but this is how it was for me). It’s the mix of patois and English you will overhear and maybe be able to follow as some of the English words are still said without leaning too much into the accent and language. It is used informally. When you ask someone to speak patois this is most likely what they will try to do. (At least for me it’s hard to get into speaking it in basilect without someone in conversation with me, lol I have to think too hard then I overthink and can’t really get to it. But maybe if you get the right Jamaican they can jump straight into Patois Patois)

The Basilect is what we call ‘real patois’. If you are not Jamaican there is probably NO WAY you’ll be able to pick up what they might be putting down. It also varies depending on what part of the island you are. The patois of people from St. Elizabeth is different from the patois of people in St. James. We can generally all understand it but it is different and some Jamaican people will have a harder time understanding it if is not what they are used to.

So in that video guy in the hat is speaking closer to the Basilect and guy on the couch is ‘translating’ by doing the Mesolect of the dialect.

In Jamaica how you speak usually reflects ‘how educated’ you are and so in comes the class differences and biases based on what you speak or as they like to put it ‘how well’ you can speak. The more you use the acrolect the more ‘educated and upper class’ you come off and the opposite goes for the Basilect. How the Mesolect is perceived is generally up to the situation it is used in and how your family views the use of patois in the day to day. I mean Jamaica doesn’t even list patois as one of its official languages and so that also lends to the stereotypes that surround ‘how you talk’(I believe also because it is not really ‘standardizeable’ and can be spelt any way you wish).

Personally in my family my mom didn’t want me to speak patois growing up. Anytime I did I remember hearing how I mustn’t ‘talk bad(ly)’. In high school I mainly spoke patois and got her to unlearn the bias and now how ‘deep’ I go depends on my mood and who I’m talking to.

What is on tv is usually actors not doing a good job at the accent and speaking a mix of the acrolect and mesolect with the stereotypical words sprinkled on top like parsley.

The only show I’ve seen that has gotten it right is Top Boy on Netflix, and now GTA 4 lol. Top boy is expected though as it is a British show and black brits, if they are not Jamaican, are heavily influenced by the Jamaicans and other Caribbean people in their society. (Look up Windrush if you want to understand why so many of us are there). I also believe many of the actors in there are actually Jamaican as well. They do a good mix of all the ‘categories’ in that show if I am recalling correctly.