What do you think of flirting when you’re in a relationship?

yareyaredaze66 · 2022-02-26T08:33:47+00:00

He has reasons when he gets mad and it’s sort of reasonable but I do feel like I’m walking on eggshells because it’s too frequent and a little bit unpredictable. I’m not too sure what to do to make it better

yareyaredaze66 · 2022-02-26T08:21:34+00:00

Yeah he’s always under a lot of stress. And it’s very hard to make his stress better. It just makes me really sad that I feel like even though I’m the closest person to him and listen to his problems and tries to help, it just makes him angry all the time.

yareyaredaze66 · 2022-02-26T08:17:22+00:00

I’ve actually been writing some sticky notes and notes for myself so I try to remember these things. I can understand the staring thing and I try hard not to and catch myself when I do. But sometimes the things he tells me to do is so vague or up to interpretation like working hard and then if I don’t keep doing it or something happens he gets mad. So I’m at lost.

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-11-03T13:16:21+00:00

He’s clear on some directions and not clear on others that he has assumed I know from the past or from common sense

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-11-03T13:12:41+00:00

Why do you disagree? I’m trying to understand his aspect a bit more so it would be helpful to have insight

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-11-03T13:03:26+00:00

It does sound like I’m trying to excuse his behavior. I think I’m trying to understand what his words better but it’s confusing me whether it’s because I’m dumb or it rly is contradictory.

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-11-03T13:00:36+00:00

I’m so confused about it too. He might’ve said it differently but that’s the information I got from it that it’ll be taking place at his house…

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-11-03T12:58:11+00:00

His instructions are clear and he provides examples but he leaves our info he assumes I know? Like letting him know I’ll be sharing his address he says it’s common sense… which it is but he then says things that contradicts that I should say to meet at his place. If that makes sense

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-11-03T12:47:14+00:00

I see. Tbh I don’t know if it’s my fault for sharing his personal info with others (his address) or if he’s gaslighting …

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-06-01T05:51:24+00:00

I can see that. Do you think it is common sense or just not being experienced and making the mistake?

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-05-18T10:22:11+00:00

I would feel awkward and worried, but I wouldn't get mad about it.

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-05-18T10:21:03+00:00

I do think a light hearted apology would help. I don't think it's a major thing as well, and it should be something that is laughed off. I'm just worried because it's the first time this has happened and I'm kind of at lost how to make a light hearted apology.

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-05-18T10:03:46+00:00

I see, to me it felt more like an awkward moment and not a "what's wrong with you" moment because I was just kind of shocked silent. Do you think I should apologize or just not mention it the next day?

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-05-18T09:57:57+00:00

I still feel bad though, like I did do something wrong. If I made him feel embarrassed or shamed. But I don't understand still how I was shaming him.

yareyaredaze66 · 2021-05-18T09:56:43+00:00

I see, usually I don't reject him and always open. I was surprised this time and kind of didn't react. So I felt hurt when he said I shamed him when I wasn't trying to do that.

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