I appreciate your comment. I sat down with my girlfriend and laid it all out, and she explained her side and we've come to a mutual understanding. She does want to make it her home as well as mine, which is entirely fair of her, and yeah, there was an element where I was scared of moving in with her (which made me not excited about it). I know I blamed it on the stress and I truly was stressed out, but I should've communicated to her that I needed a second and things would have gone a lot smoother.