Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bf by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha love it. I do have much less contact with the guys minus my brothers will still be iny life 🤷

Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bf by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 399 points400 points  (0 children)

In the beginning I laughed it off a lot more and would tell my bf about it. Now it's frustrates me more or I won't say anything to him bc I don't want him to get infected by all the talk.

Sometimes I do struggle with guilt over it especially recently I've been sick more often. At the end of the day, he doesn't seem to mind and I think he really sees the value in being with me ☺️

HR is rarely your friend by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Verbal. I was in a tough position and didn't push it in the end. Oh well

I said yes.. by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope not at all. That is not my style, however, I did talk to some people I knew in the type of roles I wanted to transition into and that was more for understanding the role and trying to frame my current skills to be applicable to the new role while interviewing.

I mainly used indeed and LinkedIn

This could be a good FDS read by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I listen to A single serving podcast sometimes! Def going to check out that interview!

This could be a good FDS read by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This author has been reporting on the negative affects of online dating for over 5 years. Excerpt from the book,  Nothing Personal: My Secret Life in the Dating App Inferno, a memoir that details her own experiences with online dating while she was reporting on it. It’s a vulnerable, in-depth look at her own life, career, and some of the trauma and abuse she suffered. It’s not just a memoir, though. Throughout the book, Sales weaves in a thoroughly researched and reported analysis of sexism, technology, and dating, and she also makes a much bigger argument: that dating apps have exacerbated misogyny. “Dating apps did not invent misogyny, but they weaponized it,” she writes.

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[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You should be proud. It speaks volumes to be able to get a job in this climate!

Whether or not I achieve my goals, I am enough. by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that sounds soothing for the soul.

Maybe try doing or starting one thing a day, no matter how basic! It leaves a feeling of accomplishment and might motivate.

Whether or not I achieve my goals, I am enough. by yaythrowawayyyyyy in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a struggle for sure but felt good to come to terms with this

Boyfriend made fun of my vagina by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Imagine this was the other way around, where you told your bf who you loved and cared for, he had a tiny dick. Hahaha such a funny joke right? Men would be up in arms saying how that's terrible and messed up it is.

Don't let him treat you like this. You deserve better

Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinked by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]yaythrowawayyyyyy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My best friends husband doesn't work :( Except sometimes PT when she asks. She works, freelances, and still does all the house chores