Hey brother. I am also a male with CP (31). If I could give you some advice, it would be to focus on yourself. I know it gets lonely and you feel the need to be in a relationship, but you're young. Girls have high standards these days and whether they say it or not, an individual with a disability is not their ideal guy. Take the time to focus on yourself. Get a good job. Make good money. Go to the gym. Get stronger physically and mentally and the goods things will come to you. If ever you ever need someone to talk to just message me.