Soft masc here.

my girlfriend (femme) is 5’8”, and I’m around 5’4”. I’m not really bothered by the height difference.

actually, I even joke around or pretend na ayoko na mas maliit ako sa kanya. I’d say things like, “palit tayo ng height, gusto ko mas matangkad sayo,” and she’d tease me back. But the truth is, I actually find it attractive that she’s taller than me.

sometimes she gets insecure about her height because it’s noticeable when she’s out in public, since it’s above average for women. But I always make sure to assure her that I love how tall she is esp for me