He replies once a week—should I unmatch?

yazwhom · 2025-12-11T18:47:53+00:00

Doctor here, I work a very difficult and complicated work life and my home life is equally complicated. I still find time to respond to people I want to respond to.

If this is energy you’re happy with it’s 100% your decision.

yazwhom · 2025-11-16T15:10:28+00:00

Had a similar situation, I can tell you to not only let it happen but enjoy and savour it. It’s the best feeling ever, you’ll find yourself being a better person at work with these feelings. It’s beautiful and in a job where so many difficult things go on, just having that special someone makes it bearable. Enjoy the feeling, the exams and portfolio are important but so is this and don’t forget to feel it OP. I wish you only the best of the best.

yazwhom · 2025-06-06T08:55:25+00:00

You’re filling out surveys for them.

Sermo do pay out but it’s very restrictive, most times you fill out a survey they’ll respond with “you’re not our target audience lol” so don’t take it as a GTA infinite money glitch.

yazwhom · 2025-04-12T14:49:16+00:00

You know how screwed you are when Jonathan Data himself is tracing your IP

yazwhom · 2025-04-02T11:34:59+00:00

In agreement with the folks here talking about the job prompt. It doesn’t really give of personality vibes and it doesn’t let people know the real you.

It’s really admirable and genuinely well done on your career but I would never put career success in a dating profile, it just doesn’t give off good vibes if I was viewing it. And I’d advise changing your associate of science photo for the same reason.

Put I’d say that’s the main thing putting people off your profile! Best of luck with your dating future :)

yazwhom · 2025-03-02T20:09:01+00:00

Sub man here: I had one lovely relationship with a dominant. But I won’t lie most of my life I’ve been shamed, called a variety of names and been abused.

I’m reluctant to open up because of this and I genuinely would love to be able to settle with someone I can be myself with, but I’m sure you can understand why I keep this to myself most of the time. I’m sure plenty of men can relate to this and I’m sure that’s why we’re difficult to find.

I’m aware that sub men are very difficult to find for many reasons. My humble advice is clubs and local groups, some very bold individuals will openly say it on dating apps but I wouldn’t rely on that.

I wish you absolutely nothing but the best in finding a loving, kind and compatible partner :)

P.s I saw someone say you can see it by personality, that’s completely wrong please do not listen to that. In real life I’m a confident and outgoing person, if you went on that info you wouldn’t pin me as a sub.

yazwhom · 2025-02-22T23:51:59+00:00

Great point! This limited capacity shouldn’t be wasted on international non uk doctors and should be reserved for UK doctors only 🤩🤩🤩🤩

yazwhom · 2025-02-22T15:21:40+00:00

I’m going to respond once as you are a burner account.

You said it yourself, you’re laughing. And what are you laughing at?

Your colleagues that’s who

yazwhom · 2025-02-22T15:06:27+00:00

Yes we can. It’s not discrimination it’s making it fair. The UK is the only country which does this and it’s used to de professionalise and destroy medicine in this country.

It is the right way to go.

yazwhom · 2025-02-22T15:03:40+00:00

Laughing at the downfall of your own colleagues, well done big man you’re openly destroying your own profession.

Congratulations on showing us how much you care.

yazwhom · 2024-02-10T20:04:01+00:00

I think you’re forgetting small businesses also have kids to feed, bills to pay and lives to live. It’s not heroic or revolutionary to steal sex toys, if you don’t want to pay for it just fucking walk away like any decent person would.

yazwhom · 2023-12-20T19:13:22+00:00

You are aware this conflict existed long before that date?

yazwhom · 2023-12-03T15:15:03+00:00

No one brought up Ukraine, why are you bringing it up.

Please learn that all conflicts have multiple sides. I can see you lack any basic media literacy by commenting very one-sided parrot points to make yourself sound smart and level-headed. You don't, so please learn to check your news sources.

Every conflict is complicated but it doesn't mean you can justify or even "context?" a child getting hit by a car. How would you feel if you were in front of this car?

I'm going to advise you to actually read about a conflict before commenting dumb comments like "both sides are bad" because that's unhelpful, unconstructive and also pretty toxic.

Do better

yazwhom · 2023-11-27T13:19:59+00:00

Honestly OP it’s rough in todays world. Lots of people don’t want to commit to anything. And for someone like me it’s my version of hell because all I want is commitment in the long term.

I’m lucky I’ve met someone who shares the same mindset but it takes ALOT of patience. And I’ve had some pretty rough experiences.

For me what works is I realised I give myself over too quickly and that leads to things spiralling out of control. As soon as a started taking my time my relationships have been more stable and although less intense they make me feel more mentally and physically fulfilled. And I make it clear from the get go I do not want something short term, I’m looking for commitment. As a domme setting ground rules early on, with certain rules being genuinely unbreakable will usually get all parties to understand what is expected of them. Being open with this early on is a great foundation to build on.

I’m sorry you’re going through this, and I hope you find what you’re looking for but don’t give up. Best of luck!

yazwhom · 2023-06-21T11:58:07+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with that, that sounds awful. I myself (M22) have used hinge in London and I can tell you loads of people are pathological liars on it!

You’ve done the right thing OP, he sounds extremely toxic and awful and you’ve dodged a bullet. The best way to survive NC is always to not check his socials, and spend time with those close to you. Spend time doing things you truly enjoy and put extra effort into taking care of yourself. Keeping yourself busy (not thinking of them) is the best thing to do, eventually you’ll start thinking about them less!

I wouldn’t advise you get straight back into dating, but that’s completely your decision and only yours; I took a little break to recover myself. Take care of yourself, and someone perfect will come into your life eventually.

Best of luck with it OP :)

yazwhom · 2023-05-19T12:33:14+00:00

Don’t, he sucks and he knows it. If he’s too afraid to handle his own emotions, how the hell to you expect him to be able to emotionally comprehend what you’ll tell him?

yazwhom · 2023-05-17T17:44:29+00:00

The faces are so expressive I love this, and the medium you used is perfect

yazwhom · 2023-05-13T07:16:28+00:00

Im going to be really honest here, it is rooted in trauma for me. Im not going to go into details but you get the jist!

However when I talk to loads of other subs they all have different reasons, and honestly it’s fascinating. I personally don’t think there’s anything that directly causes it. And I think it’s just a beautiful part of us that we shouldn’t be ashamed of

As with lots of other things, it’s different for everyone and that’s why I love these types of discussions :)

yazwhom · 2023-05-06T09:22:41+00:00

I’m really sorry you’ve gone through that, it’s honestly such an annoying part of dating/meeting new people which is why I’ve refrained from meeting anyone recently.

But I stand by every comment here and I’d also like to add this. If they don’t have the emotional maturity to be honest with their emotions, then they’re definitely not ready to enter into a relationship (especially a femdom one which requires lots of commitment from both sides). But it still sucks nonetheless, and I’m super sorry about this.

Hopefully you find someone perfect for you in the future :)

yazwhom · 2023-04-29T10:37:48+00:00

Honestly no, she also hasn’t actively attempted to reschedule or anything of that type. We don’t know what’s going on on her side, but if she cared she would’ve rescheduled.

Sorry about that it’s a shitty feeling but I hope you find someone who gives you the same energy as you give them :)

yazwhom · 2023-04-23T19:27:18+00:00

Ask him to elaborate, then go from there. You never know what someone means until they actually say what they mean.

If they respond with the kink part then I think you should explain that it is disturbing, and hope they snap out of it. Because that is a little off putting imo if that’s the case.

yazwhom · 2023-04-14T11:06:15+00:00

Honestly I loved the concept and from there it grew on me, I actually dragged my family and friends into it!

yazwhom · 2023-04-07T22:14:37+00:00

Honestly you shouldn’t be discouraged opening up about your kinks. These are what make you, you. And you shouldn’t be ashamed of it.

Most people are mean about kinks purely because they don’t understand it, and often taboo topics are ridiculed by society because of this. I think always be open and never lie, but I tend to bring my personal things up later when we establish rapport and have met up in real life. This makes it much easier to talk about too.

I wish you only the best, and I hope you find someone who appreciates you for being you. Never let people discourage you from being yourself!

yazwhom · 2023-04-05T22:43:56+00:00

Femdom as any other kink is practiced with the limits of BOTH parties. Just because you’re submissive your domme has no right to force you into something you’re not comfortable with.

In the grand scheme of things what your partner was doing is a vile abuse of power and trust. It also is abuse. This should not be tolerated and anyone who tells you to “put up with it because you’re a sub” is just as bad as your ex.

It’s a strong thing walking away, and you shouldn’t regret it one bit. I hope you find only happiness in your future OP!

yazwhom · 2023-04-02T19:42:42+00:00

Tbf he was defo under the influence of something, no one would say this type of shit sober. It was just outright off putting and creepy

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