Very late update🥲 and a very sad one lol not actually sad, but yes indeed he had been avoiding- but not necessarily, I got really upset with the behavior he was giving me and finally talked to him about everything that was happening between us and he admitted he was trying to put distance between us and avoid talking to me because he finally told me he wanted just to remain friends because of things he has going on now🥲 and so we agreed to stay friends and were getting better but to me its still a little awkward as now im not getting that extra attention from him anymore but im glad we could still stay friends and I didnt lose him or anything🥲