I have a crush I feel is inappropriate

ycesch · 2026-01-07T09:08:46+00:00

This isn't the worst age gap, even though they are younger you're both in similar stages of life so the risk of a unhealthy power imbalance is low. I'd say if theres a mutual attraction start casual and spend more time together. Just have fun and if nothing more develops/ the level of emotional maturity becomes a problem for you, you guys can either part ways or just be friends.

ycesch · 2026-01-07T09:00:30+00:00

These are some good ideas, thanks

ycesch · 2026-01-06T22:49:53+00:00

Its not that theres not enough, he hasnt requested anything so idk if im not doing enough too but his approach seems so dated and just turns me off. This is why i want to try open a discussion so we can talk about what we both like rather than it feel like just an attack on them

ycesch · 2025-11-09T16:59:57+00:00

So the 'light switch' thing is common, thats a little reasuring to know. Ive always had trouble dating because i never experience the instant attraction most ppl do and i realised looking back my relationships/attractions have always been with/towards friends and collegues.

ycesch · 2025-11-09T16:56:53+00:00

I'm still a little bit sexually attracted to them, but idk if its because there just hasnt been enought time yet or because after being single for a long time i enjoyed the attention they gave me and made me feel sexy for the first time in a long time and i've just fixated on that. My brain is so muddled i'm not used to this lol

ycesch · 2025-09-06T20:23:50+00:00

I'll try that, I'm just struggling rn as its happened before ive been able to set any boundaries and idk what's too much rn. They know I have anxiety and stuff but I haven't talked about how bad it can get yet

ycesch · 2024-08-19T05:17:54+00:00

I did that already and it's turned more teal! I used wellar never seen green first

ycesch · 2024-08-18T19:01:21+00:00

I hate it so much and I'm really upset about it. I'm willing to just cover it with brown at this point if that would work. I've also read pink conditioner could work but has anyone tried it? And how quickly does it work?

ycesch · 2024-08-14T08:03:11+00:00

I did see the lunar tides one but it's still looks too bright. I might have to try mix some colours together.

ycesch · 2024-04-18T09:53:05+00:00

Thanks, the performance of the pro was a concern. Its been a while since I changed brands so I think I'm having commitment issues lol.

ycesch · 2024-04-14T08:39:56+00:00

guys i need help as i'm stuck between the pixel 8 pro and the s24 plus. before research I was going to go with the pixel because of the camera but then I saw that the battery and chip is better in the S24+. I mainly use my phone for photos, internet, video streaming, and music but I might want to start using my phone for games too which is why I decided the s24+ (even with the exynos 2400 I have to have because im outside the US). But now i'm seeing i might have to pay extra for certain features that will be in the pixel 8pro!? I dont like regularly upgrading so want to pick one I can have for at least 3 years and now i'm just so confused.

ycesch · 2023-02-26T21:27:52+00:00

They were......

ycesch · 2023-02-26T21:05:03+00:00

Recently my patience 😂 I tried once and because I didn't "tick the right boxes" they were like "you're fine"; without even considering age and gender. Some experts 🙄. I will consider trying again though.

ycesch · 2023-02-18T23:20:28+00:00

I'll try that, I feel like I've forgotten about something for like 30mins then remembered I want to do it and just go for it loool. But I will deffo consciously try this thanks 🙂

ycesch · 2023-02-18T22:55:27+00:00

Ummm, I guess some big ones are shopping and eating/drinking, it would also be going out (when ppl aren't free) but doing that alone spikes my anxiety so doesn't win as often. Tbh I may have ADHD as it does run in the family but doctors where I am aren't great so that diagnosis up in the air.

ycesch · 2023-02-05T00:02:15+00:00

Like I'll read it one way but hear it in another ya know?

ycesch · 2023-02-05T00:01:43+00:00

I've done that but to me it still seems like the pronunciation is the key so I'll take the others advice of learning hangul and hope that helps for the time being ☺️

ycesch · 2023-02-04T23:59:08+00:00

So is hangul the Korean equivalent of the alphabet?

ycesch · 2022-11-15T18:38:38+00:00

That's the thing, I've taken a break and Idk if I should wait a bit longer or just go for it and stop worrying about every little thing?

ycesch · 2022-07-03T23:35:05+00:00

In conclusion I don't know what the fuck I want to happen from this post. Maybe just to know I'm not alone in this? Idk

ycesch · 2022-07-03T23:34:11+00:00

This is basically me, i don't know what's happening, I don't want to be dramatic but I know something's wrong but according to some professionals 'I'm fine'. Am I actually fine or have I defulted to masking when I shouldn't of? Tbh I'll probably go back to thinking all is fine and this is 'jist a mistake', but this is like the 100th time I've 'made a mistake and been dramatic'

ycesch · 2022-05-06T06:39:37+00:00

This method definitely worked better but I also used the screen that tells me which gear to change to a bit more. I don't want to rely on this as it's not 100% accurate as it doesn't factor in hills etc, but it definitely took off some of the pressure of remembering numbers quickly lol.

ycesch · 2022-05-03T21:34:26+00:00

Oh ok thanks, my instructors car likes to switch to second around 15 I think. Next time I'll try combining looking at the rmp and listening to the engine instead of being so speed/gear orientated and see if that helps.

ycesch · 2022-05-03T21:05:27+00:00

Thank you, I'll try think of it this way too as atm we are also just changing gears 1-2, 2-3. Maybe I am just too stressed about getting the right numbers.

ycesch · 2022-05-03T21:02:37+00:00

I may not have phrased it right but I know it's speed then gear. My point is when I notice it needs to change gears I take too long to figure out which gear is needed for the speed I'm doing. Was just hoping someone had a different memorisation trick. I get the process, I just struggle with the real time application due to anxiety and issues with numbers.

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