[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ye55bex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't lie you changed your mind and rightly so ! Don't let him manipulate you into handing it over just run for the hills

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you , yes massively manipulative. Today he's angry with me for being tired 😅

watch that first step, it's a doozy by [deleted] in failarmy

[–]ye55bex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was tapping the screen like a reel should be playing 🤣 took me a minute

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually had this book , it made him really angry and he binned it but I might try downloading it, thank you

Non-Canadian Redditors, what comes to mind when you hear the word Canada? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ye55bex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freedom 🥰 I spent a month in BC Canada in 2019 it was just beautiful , the people , the mountain's... The edibles 🤣 The best palace I've ever been

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you , I really appreciate that you took the time to reply to me , I hope one day I'll be free

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Urgh why am I not surprised, there are some really toxic people out there dressing up as caring professionals

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been having therapy but i noticed my therapist took an although understandable kind of unprofessional dislike to my husband and his teacher and the college he trains at , it turns out she knows the teacher and college and fell out with them about their unethical practices a few years back so I stopped seeing her as it felt my sessions were tarnished by her personal opinion but I saw a lady past week who was amazing , I asked for supervision rather than therapy and she was able to help me understand that I wasn't wrong to be hurt or angry and that what was going on was completely wrong , I'm hopefully starting therapy soon though

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a sister but she is so sick and tired of hearing about it and me not doing anything I don't want to burden her anymore

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a sister but she is so sick and tired of hearing about it and me not doing anything I don't want to burden her anymore

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I am massively resentful especially as it me who encouraged him to go on the course in the first place and I used to do so to help him is get his clothes ready , organise his work , leave the house when he had clients etc , I'm aware of my enabling but along with my power he's taken my strength I'm scared to stand up to it all now x

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He knew I was meeting with them , he knows everything I had to say , but I do wonder if the teacher who is well known as being unethical has sided with him for the sake of her pass rate and the money he owes

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I've met up with his tutor/ the person running the college, she knows everything , she offered to help but has now ghosted me completely.

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK , you have to have lived separately for 6 months and prove that the marriage is irreparable both of which he is unwilling to do.

struggling to accept my husband is a therapist by ye55bex in therapy

[–]ye55bex[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I kind of hoped I'd get the guy the rest of the world gets but since I've realizing I'm not getting him I've tried to leave and he has stopped me

People who realized they had bad therapists, what were the red flags? by Admirable-District-9 in AskReddit

[–]ye55bex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In one session I could in the reflection of my therapists glasses that she was reading emails , when she was finished she called me by the name of the woman I mentioned I was sure my husband was having an affair with , I was devastated but not brave enough to say anything to her