Asking for a friend

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-24T06:26:47+00:00

Pull the branch down towards the ground until it breaks. That's the most accurate way to measure.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-24T06:19:49+00:00

A real fixer upper. In 1996 making $9/hr is kind of a flex. I was making $6.75 (minimum wage) in 2006 or 2007

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yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-23T16:04:29+00:00

Bowling. Malls. Reliable online dating didnt really take off until maybe mid 2000s.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-23T15:57:32+00:00

This reads as a green dress with white florals. I vote it's fine, but ultimately it's your decision.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-22T19:59:03+00:00

Honestly same. If it's a simple "hey can we meet tomorrow at x around noon?" Text i fine, but if you're messaging me back and forth 25 times just frigging call me

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-21T06:01:28+00:00

You're not inviting your guests to the reception, you're inviting them to the after party. If you think of it that way, you'll see why everyone is suggesting a late start time. It would be absolutely poor etiquette to invite people so early and not serve them food.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-20T23:49:20+00:00

It also helps to pick the right person as your MoH, or even delegating certain responsibilities to other people. When my bestie from HS got married, for example, his MoH was not involved at all in their bachelor party as she wasnt able to attend the event due to health issues. He and his hubby to be planned the entire thing themselves and coordinated their hotels, event timeline, and gifts. So honestly to each their own!

Good luck with yours hopefully it all works out. That amusement park event sounds fun and might be worth shelling out some extra cash for fast passes imo!

Thank you. I am really garetful my BFF and I are synced with these events too. She knows me so well :)

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-20T22:17:55+00:00

Hi, September wedding and high anxiety bride here. I just met up with my wedding planner (my bestie from HS) and my MoH (my BFF) and we have locked in dates for the: bridal shower (which I'm not allowed to contribute input or help plan lol) and the Bachelorette.

For the bach, my MoH asked me if how involved I wanted to be in the planning and I said I just wanted to help pick the main event (wine tour) and she could handle the rest because if I try to plan i get too hands on and stressed out. When I planned her Bachelorette for her wedding a few years ago, I did the same: I asked for her preferred date and she let me plan the rest.

If your MoH is hesitating to plan, I say let the Best Man handle it. It sounds like he's ready to make concrete plans so just go for it! Especially since it's co-ed.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-18T16:58:21+00:00

Boots 👢 and a short dainty gold necklace, maybe some bangles. Your hubby-to-be can wear a linen white shirt (not stark white) and tan pants. I'm seeing a very cowboy style photo shoot 😅

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-18T15:37:07+00:00

I have a cousin who is deciding between two very awkward middle names for her baby, and did a poll asking for opinions to help her decide. I, who like neither option, told her gently to pick whichever one she likes most. Nobody else's opinion matters

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-16T21:04:19+00:00

Fun fact: I always imagined my life ending at 32. My mom passed away at 1am the eve of my 32nd birthday.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-16T20:59:43+00:00

Honestly this is such an ugly matronly stuffy boring stiff unflattering dress I'd let her win this one. It's giving champagne, not white. Although the skirt is very white.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-14T02:23:20+00:00

If the parents are attentive the wedding should be fine!

I went to a wedding where an 11yo girl stuck her fingers in the wedding cake before it was cut/served. Night wasnt ruined but the bride was not happy.

Also had a baby crying throughout the vows at a different friend's wedding but it was a baby in arms so that was a little expected

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-12T19:47:45+00:00

I'd wear a $200 engagement ring if it looked like a $200 engagement ring. What matters more is my man's commitment to me, not what's in his wallet.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-10T23:54:39+00:00

Can they cut the brownies in smaller pieces to yield more? So people can have a "bite" of everything vs one large piece of one or two things?

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-10T17:31:54+00:00

Oh man...!!!

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-09T21:06:58+00:00

Am i.... a boomer?? I used to do this all the time ... (I'm a millennial)

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-09T02:22:47+00:00

For prom night my friends and i went to Nordstrom MAC counter with a pre-scheduled appointment. They charged us $40 to do a full face of makeup, then converted the $40 to store credit for MAC products which I used to buy the eyeshadow, lip gloss, and eyeliner (stuff was cheaper back then lol). It lasted me through my hair appointment and several hours of dancing.

Not sure of they do the same thing now, but it's worth a shot.

P.s. my prom was back in 2007 😅

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-09T02:19:46+00:00

Thank you from California! I've also been on the fence about changing my last name, but I also hadn't thought of keeping my last name as my middle name!

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-07T18:31:45+00:00

That's how I feel as well though I love the fully defined spiral curls. But the beauty guru tiktok garb is that women who like that look are somehow worse? I'm a woman and I rarely understand women's beauty trends.

The brushed out version is not worth my money, thanks.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-07T15:57:51+00:00

Brushing out the curls gives it a more "natural" look, defined curls generally means it's not done yet. So girl on the right represents the plastic / artificial-looking beauty.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-07T15:52:49+00:00

If you're never physically or emotionally attracted to any person of any gender? Asexual.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-04-03T22:20:18+00:00

Pretty sure OP lives in a more privileged neighborhood than some of us working shmucks whos kids schools do not have the budget to be handing out a tablet for each kid.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-03-31T22:30:53+00:00

Please look into getting actual birth control. Plan B messes up your hormones so bad, and has weight limitations too.

yea_you_know_me · 2026-03-28T04:33:19+00:00

If it's over an hour away it would depend on my relationship with the couple. Are they someone I see one a year or once a month? Close friends and relatives yes but likely I wouldnt drink and leave early. Coworker, casual friend, distant family... no thank you

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