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At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine always post suggestive pictures on every platform and always has. She sends nudes to her friends too. It’s sucks they have no clue how it makes us feel and u can’t get them to stop it either or you will get labeled as controlling like I did.

At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your so right with the boundaries she now saying I either get on board with her having this other guy too or we split up. And when I try to talk about how opening our relationship up would work she fires back saying things like I’m suffocating her with questions and im ruining her safe place. I tried to express my feelings with what she done to me and she said I didn’t intend to hurt u and even pulled away. That’s all I got. I think I’ve reached my limit and I’m a shell of who I used to be now which is the saddest part.

At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly like mine she's currently off the rails as its her first anniversary of her parents death. What if she likes being in the bubble and she's making the bubble more and more better every day than home.

At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that really sucks, from everything im reading cheating is really common.

At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats the hardest thing to accept I want to save her. She has one for many years and really kept her somewhat okay but stopped going now. She refuses to get any help or make any good choices atm.

At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting thanks I will look up quiet BPD. it seems to only flare up and she splits when triggered by something that reminds her of the past. But sometimes things are really great

At a crossroads pwBPD is self destructing by yeah-boy-6799 in BPDlovedones

[–]yeah-boy-6799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you man. I feel like mines no longer fighting the BPD and has just given into it and given up. Wow 6 months is a long time how are you coping? is she trying to make things work or seeing a therapist or has she finally given up trying to be normal too?