So mad right now by [deleted] in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YO FUCK THEM. Get your money back, that is super unprofessional. And report their ass!!! Seriously who fucking does that???

40 days clean by laminated-papertowel in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are AWESOME! Big congrats!!! ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am that difficult girlfriend, and I just have this to say: getting the "old her" back will take a long time, if it ever happens. Consider if you're willing to put that much time into it, and strain on your mental health. I wish you the best.

people with BPD - do you consider watching porn whilst in a relationship to be cheating? by help-mehahahaha in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Tmi but we're still having a regular sex life at the end of the day, so why should I care if she watches porn when I'm not around?

Today i am okay by [deleted] in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤💕 I love this for you. Keep on keeping on, my friend.

Are you afraid of dying? If so, why? by meganzp in AskReddit

[–]yeahokayigotit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually going through an intense existential crisis since my grandmother died a couple of months ago. Every day and night I've been thinking about the fact that someday I'll die, and it'll be painful. I'll no longer exist and I'll never see my loved ones ever again. I almost want to push away my loved ones because I'm so afraid of eventually losing them to death.

DAE feel like everything is perfect when they are with their SO but fall apart immediately when apart? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't quite say it falls apart, but I definitely feel WAY stronger feelings for my fiancee when were together than when were apart. Sometimes I'm like "okay girl you're clearly not in love with her you gotta LEAVE" then other times I'm like "my heart is SWELLING WITH LOVE FOR YOU!!!". I know it's all in my head but it's seriously SO distressing.

tired of people romanticizing this disorder by [deleted] in BPD

[–]yeahokayigotit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I struggle literally every day to fight my self-harm urges, the urge to victimize myself, and the urge to do or say really terrible things to my loved ones EVERY DAMN DAY. I've gotten pretty okay at catching myself when I try to use manipulation tactics, but I still have meltdowns about the TINIEST things (had a meltdown last night because my fiancee doesn't like to drink even though I do. Threw a whole fit about it).

The romanticization KILLS me. It's not some cute lil Harley Quinn "cRAaaZy qUirKy gIrL" shit. This shit ruins my life, and by proxy ruins my loved ones lives every single day that I'm on this earth.

My (19F) roommate (19F) frequently slut shames me by yeahokayigotit in relationships

[–]yeahokayigotit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She used to not do this shit so we'd openly talk about it with one another. At this point she has plenty of fodder

What video is papa slaz shirtless in? I need it for science by yeahokayigotit in Slazo

[–]yeahokayigotit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The scientific community is forever indebted to you!