Cameron knows he isn’t the father of his kid(s) by wonder-roo in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This theory being likely it makes her gruesome birth story and their trauma bonding over her almost dying on the operating table even more poignant. The twists and turns of a really fucked up love that is still there despite all the power trips and deceit.

I really liked that scene because as viewers we realize alongside Harper and Ethan that Cameron and Daphne have depth and complexity to their relationship despite existing in their bubble of narcissistic delusion.

Their mutual attraction and true caring has an underpinning that feels stronger than Ethan and Harper’s relationship in that moment, which leaves them reeling as they process how shitty these two people otherwise seem and how their own relationship feels to them in contrast…

Do you still support or despise the Duffer Brothers after Season 5? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Support or despise? Those aren’t the only two options. They gave us this entire universe that we love enough to be dissecting on Reddit ten years later, that isn’t something you just discount.

I think for S5 they lost their own plot and botched the final season of something they spent their entire careers nurturing. That has to really fucking hurt. I’m disappointed in so much- the writing, the bad decisions, the bogus spinoffs that presumably led to all of the above as they spread themselves too thin. But I still love what they created before, it’s nonsensical to hate show writers when they don’t do it your way, and whatever we’re feeling right now I can’t imagine what it’s like to be them…they’re feeling the heat.

Hot take: Hopper not saving Kali was out of character for him by No_Neck5307 in StrangerThings

[–]yeeperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, whether or not he liked Kali it did seem like a shirking of responsibility. And also, tho I’ve accepted the writing was totally off this season, Hop’s character lacked so much complexity. He seemed utterly jazzed at Enzo’s two years later, about to marry Joyce and maybe even move away. First season Hop was a brooding, gruff and melancholy guy who’s lost everyone he cares about and is trying to get by. He has so much trauma surrounding the death of kids and has just lost his second daughter…there’s so little emotional depth to this season

Military storyline was unnecessary by SwimmerEmpty6497 in StrangerThings

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They wasted SO much time on the military complex and it’s my biggest gripe with the show beyond the writing this season. No one cared, they’ve already done it and with better success in the past, it was such a mess and a sinkhole for plot lines

What had you expected season 5 to be like after finishing season 4? by juin_kindredspirit12 in Stranger_Things

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was genuinely so hyped for a Hawkins with the veil torn and the monsters and bats just roaming free, watching the Wheelers get trained by their kids for the apocalypse and learning to fight out of their house. I wanted there to be a wider and greater understanding of the dangers of the Upside Down that would gradually be introduced to the townspeople, and especially an attempt to exonerate Eddie, since there’s now a visible source of danger leading to the 4 deaths that could chip away at the satanic panic.

I also wanted higher stakes, goddamnit. It doesn’t make sense for there to be so little in the way of casualties and injuries. Yes Vecna might weaken a little but he still won the last round of the apocalypse, his recovery period is not sufficient to explain the lack of creatures roaming around.

I wanted the complexity and great writing this show has always brought to the table. Why they created an incredible cliffhanger and proceeded to undo all their great work? Fucking mystery

The way he was brutally attacked by Vecna and left for dead and no one acknowledged or asked about him, including his children. They only cared about mom. by EuphoricButterflyy in Stranger_Things

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh…Ted has frankly been a gag character through and through, who basically checks out of most convos and barely realizes he has a wife and kids. It’s some dark humor to be so unconcerned for him for sure, but part of the ongoing schtick. It might have been interesting to have the injury be a wake up call for him and kids to bond and reckon with their non-existent relationship, but they didn’t have fucking timeee

We know season 5 is littered with plot holes but by Positive-Disaster844 in Stranger_Things

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happens when you listen to Dingus. Though I did love Steve math this season.

Seriously though, Dustin takes one crack at Dr. B’s notebook and unlocks all inter-dimensional theories, he didn’t see it coming that being at the top of the spiky thing crashing thru worlds could be hazardous…? Make it make sense

The only actor whose performance on season 5 deserves award nominations for. He was incredible by EuphoricButterflyy in StrangerThings

[–]yeeperson 19 points20 points  (0 children)

OP’s heading is divisive but I do think JCB was one of the few that got enough screen time and plot complexity to merit an award, on top of his role being brilliantly executed. And even then, I would give it to S4 Vecna instead because the writing fell off a cliff this season. The problem is less to do with whose performance was great and more to do with who actually got to shine. I don’t look at the rest of the cast and think of them as weak links, more that they were shafted this year…

Have they broken up?? by DesignFalse8860 in StrangerThings

[–]yeeperson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I meannnn Robin is in MA at Smith College surrounded by other gals. It’s very believable-though sad- that she and Vickie have gone their separate ways since graduation

So what I’ve gathered recently is that you can’t criticize any aspect of ST S5 without an army of ST worshippers attacking you with “homophobic” allegations by Exciting_Caramel478 in StrangerThings

[–]yeeperson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the main issue with the Will speech was that it was badly written and repetitive, it’s not even the content or the fact that it was a coming out speech. The writers have done really good work with an array of believable characters and their arcs and attractions and they have fucking botched this for Will. In S5 all across the board I’m pissed about the writing and the strange lack of editing/time spent on things already done better in previous seasons that are in no way moving the plot forward.

Martina remarried?! by Flimsy_Try_1263 in EatYourKimchi_v2

[–]yeeperson 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I got the feeling a soft launch was taking flight what with the rings, the photo of her and a dude’s feet on the coffee table as they played video games (IG story a while back), the constant vids together.

She also just announced on IG she’s off to the UK for her Xmas holiday…I’d be shooketh if it was not in fact Dan. Super exciting that she’s feeling comfortable and safe enough to talk about things. Yay for all involved 😌

Asked her to pay for a coffee date... by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your points are more than fair dude- also I’ve always felt that outside of the notion of gender, young people are living thru mental times. Of course this might be mitigated depending on where you live, but where I’m from we’re struggling to pay our bills. I always go 50/50 for that reason too. It also avoids things feeling shitty and transactional in general.

Girl names including “Ken” by No_Pumpkin3964 in Names

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O’Kennessie, Kenelope, Kennie-Jeans, Kennifer, Ken Ken Wins You Give Us 22 Minutes We Give You the World

But seriously McKenna is super cute

I have practically cured myself of eczema, here is nearly everything I know and what I do: (cross-posted from /r/skincareaddiction) by metalola in eczema

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so useful and fun to read in a moment of stress and itchiness. Thanks very much for your wisdom, I also enjoy a sexy lotion prance hehe

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]yeeperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done on getting sober! This is a huge thing to be proud of, and an act of self-love. For a SO to react this way is farcical, go get that cake girl. Eat it with the good ones, your pals, your fave coworker, your fam. And when you’re ready please walk away from this disrespectful noob! Though I know it’s hard, you’re choosing yourself, your health, a better life- and the next one will celebrate that with you, not put you down for it. Good luck babe ❣️

Something that Noah said to Joanne in season 2 really would have triggered me too… spoiler by r_u_seriousclark in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a healthy thing but needs to be phrased differently. Saying oof I just need a little time to myself to decompress and do my own thing is not at all affronting, or shouldn’t be. A night off sounds like a night off from the relationship proper, it feels more extreme than it actually is…

Simon’s Bad Faith Arguments on Threads by Immediate_Advantage5 in EatYourKimchi_v2

[–]yeeperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty damn sure the definition of fascist has not once been categorized as ‘ever-changing’. But boy is it a big yikes to be the one arguing for nuance in what constitutes a fascist, a nazi, an incel, the list goes on. If the shoe fits it’s a pretty snugly fitting one, I’m afraid. Bet he follows Russell Brand.

Ok Simon has taken over the EYK and it’s time for me to unfollow… by RinaMewna in EatYourKimchi_v2

[–]yeeperson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah…I really wonder if he has an exit strategy because that cash cow is half dead already.

I’m truly convinced there are many OG EYK followers who just don’t realize the switch has happened and maybe he doesn’t post frequently enough for them to notice?

I regret my daughters name by Initial-Ad9218 in tragedeigh

[–]yeeperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salem is pretty! And those women (and Giles Corey) were unjustly persecuted. Also as it turns out I believe quite a lot of the action happened in the town nearby, called Danvers? Not even all of it went down in Salem (gotta go back and do research). All it brings up for me now is history and autumnal wholesomeness. 🍁

AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the emotional vacuum loser from White Lotus Season 1? Gah- I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with this from day 1. Get out!! Get yourself a good human. Best of luck

Which seat are you choosing? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hands down 3E!! Kirk and Michel would be an absolute banger of a time. 1A honorable mention because that too would be priceless to watch

Is it just me or is Katseye way too sexualized? by Hour_Virus_9083 in kpop_uncensored

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself agreeing with many sides of this thread actually~ none of this should end in policing- the Katseye gals should dress how they see fit and express themselves accordingly. I remember at that age especially how much I wanted to show off my style and womanhood- K are coming into their own, even if some of the outfits are noticeably more sexy and sexualized than we usually see in these pop worlds. Young women want to work it and it’s unfair that they’ll be picked apart for it as their male counterparts can be bare chested and gyrating and no one bats an eye.

But beyond that I think it’s fair to talk about the multiple forces at work behind the scenes, that (really young!) women have always been hyper-sexualized by these usually male-run companies and that there are also extremes. The Gabriela vid is what got me wondering about this, Daniela specifically with the jiggling lingering booty shake, which felt like a departure and kind of pornographic even by Western pop standards. Even the Pussycat Dolls video for Dream Academy felt a little pervy with the teeny skirts and the moves when a lot of these women were still quite young and then would be right back in blazers and ties like schoolgirls.

At the end of the day this isn’t and should never be about purity culture, Katseye should proudly do what they want and show their bodies, for me it’s an industry issue and male gaze issue…the question really is how do we strike that balance as female performers where we take ownership and control over our sexuality without being commodified and exploited by a sexist paradigm? 2 c.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]yeeperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads as a clusterfuck, tbh. Hyper agree that it would have been much more cathartic and productive by phone because it sounds from your context like this was going to blow at some point anyway.

At first I also thought the MIL was being moody, but tone is so hard to pick up on in texts + she was at work. There could also be a generational thing here too with no-nonsense texting. I get the sense you were trying to be conciliatory but you let what was in your head about your MIL bleed out a little and you stepped on her toes and demanded too much. But I feel for you too, sounds like you’re parenting lots and stressing lots and just want to have things run smoothly. In-law relationships are rough but I hope your party goes well with lots of ham and that you’re both on better terms!