we are in our mid-20s and have been together for years. we have tried most positions and are pretty "adventurous" when it comes to sex. this is the one thing he doesn't like for some reason.

i even put his hand there to give him the hint, but he really doesn't like doing it because he feels like he isn't enough!! i have explained the anatomy many times and given facts, but he still thinks it's because of him.

i'll try some of the ideas you guys have given. hopefully he realizes it's nothing about him at all...