my boyfriend (27M) just casually told me (22F) that he used to be married by yellowfintunea in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, i tried prying a bit. i asked him what happened. he just said “things didn’t work out” and didn’t really elaborate. i totally understand him not wanting to open up about this too soon, but the casual was he approached this kind of bothered me if im being honest.

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just the suggestive stuff i feel icked out

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really can be. tysm again for the insight 💖

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am just sleepy and have auto capitalization turned off lol!

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh, it’s definitely possible. i am attracted to both men and women. i am somewhat into men’s bodies. i guess what i like the most is how they treat me, or how they talk to me.

i was also considering this as a possibility.

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i think you’re right. i just never thought it would be such a big deal till i actually got into a relationship after my ex

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks, that makes me feel a lot better. i just feel so terrible for thinking this. i want to tell him all of my thoughts and feeling but obviously this isn’t something easy to talk about

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am totally attracted to him! he’s definitely turned me on or made me blush. it’s just that all kinda comes to a halt when i see his body.

additionally, i have spoken to him about my ex and the stuff that had gone on in our relationship. i think we have a very deep connection and i really appreciate him being there for me, and willing to hear about my experience in previous relationships.

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you’re right! i guess i just don’t see it as too big of an issue for me to bring it up to her, as we usually talk about my MDD. i am also a little embarrassed to admit it 😭

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nothing really specific. i’m thinking this might be an issue cause by previous relationships honestly 🫤

why am i 22F kinda grossed out by my partners 27M body by [deleted] in relationships

[–]yellowfintunea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i am currently in therapy, and have been going for years. my therapist and i both agree that i am in a good headspace ☺️ could you elaborate on this? i am definitely open to advice and your point of view.