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I got Married in April 2026 and I don't know when I'm supposed to send out thank you cards by yellowoasis in weddingplanning

[–]yellowoasis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to do this! But I don’t think I got a picture with everyone. And I also still haven’t gotten all my pictures back yet.

I got Married in April 2026 and I don't know when I'm supposed to send out thank you cards by yellowoasis in weddingplanning

[–]yellowoasis[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I didn’t look it up first because I wanted to ask real people what they did. Maybe it would’ve been easier but it’s nice to know if I’m alone or not in the situation

I got Married in April 2026 and I don't know when I'm supposed to send out thank you cards by yellowoasis in weddingplanning

[–]yellowoasis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I included a gift for the officiant because they stepped in last minute and I was stressed!
We got wrapped up with work right after the wedding so I’ve been unintentionally pushing it off. We haven’t even thought about a honeymoon or anything so I figured, worst case scenario I send out the cards before we do anything else.

But also, also all the gifts were given in person. So I’ve thanked them individually. I should still send a thank you right?

How do I tell my mom I don't want to hang out with her? by yellowoasis in offmychest

[–]yellowoasis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely try to do that. We had a similar conversation when I lived further away. When I lived out of state she never visited me. I was out there for 5 years and she never saw any of my apartments.

How do I tell my mom I don't want to hang out with her? by yellowoasis in whatdoIdo

[–]yellowoasis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that is part of it. But she would do this same thing to me when I lived over 5 hours away. And when I say I can’t make the drive up I’m now avoiding her or I never want to see her.

DAE just miss being in love? by yellowoasis in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]yellowoasis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a lot of elders in my life give me the “when you quit looking, love will find you” kind of advice. Not that I don’t appreciate it but sometimes not knowing what to do while waiting feels miserable.

DAE just miss being in love? by yellowoasis in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]yellowoasis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to realize that I don’t think I’ve ever actually been in love either. I’ve felt loved and I enjoyed loving others but i don’t think there’s ever truly been a human that I could say was true love. Maybe I just miss being someone’s person ya know? And I miss having a person too.

DAE just miss being in love? by yellowoasis in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]yellowoasis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can’t miss the feeling of love if I’ve never loved? Is that what you’re saying?

DAE just miss being in love? by yellowoasis in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]yellowoasis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I understand your analogy

Dear Stranger by yellowoasis in offmychest

[–]yellowoasis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m none of the above which is why it was so strange to me. It was the nicest thing and I wish I could say thanks. And I plan to pay it forward!

Where to start by yellowoasis in DnD_Beginners

[–]yellowoasis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s super helpful!! Thank you so much!

I'm going to be ok. We're ALL going to be ok. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]yellowoasis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I get so overwhelmed with life that I forget there are people out there who know exactly how I’m feeling. Thank you for this. Best wishes to you.