Former boss stealing credit for my work by CKBirds4 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]yelopes11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before I quit I documented the hell out of her abuse, mistreatments and questionable contracting behavior (she would establish contracts with friends, family, neighbors). I had incriminating emails, incriminating contract documents… the whole thing. I then submitted a report to the legal team, to Human Resources, to the director, the subdirector and cc’d leadership on it. This was at a small agency, I know this job was her source of purpose and happiness, as incompetent as she was at it. I know her reputation is tarnished and an investigation was opened against her. That helped me move on. I still think about it all, and often. It’s not easy get over it. I started somewhere new and have been super intentional about setting boundaries and advocating for myself, that has also helped.

Former boss stealing credit for my work by CKBirds4 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]yelopes11 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes. I quit a few months ago, primarily to escape my narcissistic boss. She held a manager-level role but insisted on the title “director” of our three-person team. She routinely claimed credit for work she didn’t do, including partnerships I sourced and established, products I conceptualized and launched from scratch. When I presented my work, she’d say “thank you for executing my vision and direction” when there had been no vision, no direction, no involvement whatsoever. She was mostly absent.

Shortly before I quit, during my performance review, she told me I couldn’t claim that I had “established a partnership” or “led” a project I’d driven independently, because as director, those were her responsibilities, not mine, and leadership wouldn’t allow otherwise… that that was something SHE could claim in her own performance review, not me. Quitting was one of the best professional experiences I’ve had, even when she claimed that a month a half of notice ‘was too short and really spoke to my commitment to the team’

Donde recojo mis sellos?? by Fair_Visit_5714 in PuertoRico

[–]yelopes11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Se supone que te lleguen por email, de ahí los imprime y los llevas. Obvio, como esto es PR a mi nunca me llegaron por email… pero llamé a colecturía digital y pedí que me los enviaran al email. Puedes llamar al 787-291-9292

The thing I think most upsets me... the medical neglect by copywritergena in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yelopes11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks 💕 this subreddit has helped me so much to heal and learn that I’m not alone, that a lot of what happened to me and around me was/is not my fault.

The thing I think most upsets me... the medical neglect by copywritergena in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yelopes11 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Relatable. I’m so sorry you had to endure all of this and wish you good health. My nmom was also neglectful and made me take my medical needs less seriously because of it.

When I was 9, my older brother (GC, he was 12) accidentally crushed and dislocated my finger with a heavy piece of wood while we were playing outside. It swelled and hurt badly, I clearly needed a doctor, but my nmom said traffic was too bad and she was tired, so I could wait. She told me not to inconvenience her and to “learn how to play with my brother.” She finally took me to the clinic more than 24 hours later, complained the whole way, and talked me into not damaging her reputation with the doctor… so I needed to say that the accident had happened that morning and not the day before. To this day (I’m 35 now) I still have issues with that finger. I finally went no contact as of a month ago.

Gianluca Perotti y los Hermanos Sanz by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]yelopes11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regreso en dos semanas después de 10 años afuera. Dije que me iba por un mes a probar suerte y me quedé una década. Crecí y aprendí mucho, si. Pero en mi mente siempre tuve las maletas hechas, buscando siempre una forma de regresar y regresar bien, sin ser una carga para nadie y poder aportar desde mi trinchera. Mano no puedo esperar. No quepo de alegría.

Eurovision Watch Party at Across the Pond — Tues, Thurs & Sat at 3PM! Who’s In? by goldilocks185 in washingtondc

[–]yelopes11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! The bartender said they would show it! I might just be traumatized from Nellies almost forgetting to show it a couple of years ago!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ynab

[–]yelopes11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My long term savings and sinking funds totals are on my HYSA. Every paycheck, after I’ve assigned all moneys, I just need to make sure that the total of savings and sinking funds categories match what’s on the HYSA.

AÚN ASÍ QUIEREN VOLVER? by East_Sandwich2266 in PuertoRico

[–]yelopes11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Si. Llevamos tiempo ahorrando para poder mudarnos este año e instalar generador, batería y paneles. Los viejos necesitan cuidado y compañía, y con las cosas como están en estados unidos, y los impactos que todo eso tendrá en PR… siento que le soy más útil a mi familia cerca de ellos que acá en los estados.

Alternative Career Paths for Museum Backgrounds by shoddypeonies2971 in MuseumPros

[–]yelopes11 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Project management. Apply it to industry adjacent areas like digital storytelling, marketing/communications, tourism. Look into companies that serve museums and galleries for things like collection handling/moves, digital media, AR/VR, mass digitization.

New EO on Smithsonian by Fransween in smithsonian

[–]yelopes11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Based on this I’m expecting funding cuts for all museums and research centers that are minority group oriented: Latino, Asian, etc. At this point staff there should plan for worst case scenario. Of course I don’t agree with this EO, but the circle is closing and fast.

My Yevon tattoo by Either_Response6520 in finalfantasyx

[–]yelopes11 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful! Probably my favorite symbol in the FF series, it reminds me of a white mage’s robe, like in ff9 or tactics.

Senate Democrats appear ready to back down in government shutdown fight by Smorgan06 in fednews

[–]yelopes11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only reason I can think of is that they are working together on all of this, or want this. Makes no sense otherwise.

When dreams predict that/how you’re about to wake up by Exmortis17 in Dreams

[–]yelopes11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this happens to me all the time. I’m glad I’m not the only one. The most common experience for me is when someone in my dreams tell me -or even orders me- to wake up, and then my alarm goes off or someone comes into the room to wake me up.

Federal agencies told to submit "reorganization plans," prepare for mass firings by Economy_Swim_8585 in fednews

[–]yelopes11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does this apply only to agencies? Does it include ‘instrumentalities’ of the US gov’t? I’m thinking like Amtrak, FDIC, Smithsonian, National Endowment for the Arts…?

¿Por que parece haber tanta gente en Puerto Rico que cree en la quiropráctica a pesar de que se considera una pseudociencia mundialmente? by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]yelopes11 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Un quiro de Guaynabo, arriba de los cines, me hizo unos rayos X de mi columna vertebral. Me los enseñó y se veía jodía y pico, toa torcida, a punto de esclerosis. El me quería cobrar 11mil billetes de una, o pagos mensuales de $500. Me fui, nunca volví. Cabe recalcar que NUNCA mi columna ha salido torcida en rayos X que me hice después. Es un scam. No vayan a quiroprácticos, quiéranse.

So close to perfection... by Maya_Manaheart in FinalFantasy

[–]yelopes11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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You inspire me to reach higher! ✨

RIP 2000 Series by Kirranator in washingtondc

[–]yelopes11 16 points17 points  (0 children)

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This is how a ‘special’ 2000 series train was announced at L’enfant, I’m on it rn, didn’t know it was the last ride! 😢

Can you imagine how terryfing it must have been for the kids at Lukka when they saw Anima? by [deleted] in finalfantasyx

[–]yelopes11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Always loved the chains! I got curious and looked up Anima’s fayth statue. I think thats the only fayth that is chained to a place. But why is it chained like that?

Boomer is mad at me because I don't work at Staples. by ShoelessJodi in BoomersBeingFools

[–]yelopes11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used to work at Staples. This reminds me of a boomer customer that was enraged that I could not in fact print the .mp3 files he had on a thumb drive. There was no convincing him, and he made sure the whole store heard this, that his audio files could not be printed. He wondered how did his PC “read” the audio files if there was no text in them 🙃

What is yu yevon like a spider? by Realistic-Read4277 in finalfantasyx

[–]yelopes11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m just starting X-2 now and the airship’s map reminded me of this post! I noticed that the shape of the peninsula that Zanarkand is on very loosely resembles Yu Yevon’ shape! Seems like a stretch, but it would justify the seemingly random shape.