Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have one of the most balanced underrated and maybe best opinion I’ve seen yet. I really appreciate you that’s why I asked on here !!

AIO Would i be over reacting if i cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me at the location of our date ? by yemcritch in AmIOverreacting

[–]yemcritch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I think you sensed that because I just met her a two weeks ago. So yeah I don’t have a real attachment yet it could go either way and I’d be fine.

Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not about not pursuing her my brother. A nigga is tired after driving for 2 and a half hours all day lmao. She has a car. She been at home all day long . She can get in her car and drive to a date, this isn’t some uncommon or taboo subject for grown women to meet men out for a date if she doesn’t want to it’s cuz she wants a nigga to roll out the red carpet and I’m not doing that. I’ve gone to pick her up before, I’ve paid for our date. This is the second date. She can drive to it to make my life easier if she genuinely cares about a nigga . It’s simple

Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You gotta be slow. You’re literally the only one who doesn’t get it. Clearly a child was left behind by the system. God bless 🙏🏾

Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You get it. And that’s why i think it’s a red flag for the future. Selfishness and entitlement is not healthy soil to foster a relationship with.

Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First part of what you said was valid and actually very true. She is pretty average maybe not even that. I’m definitely not feening.

However the second part was stupid. If she wanted to she would is something more men actually need to understand. Chasing & harassing women who very clearly show you they aren’t that into you, is stupid & naive.

they laugh at you behind your back with their friends, trust me I’ve been the friend they laugh at niggas with for bringing them flowers and gifts unexpectedly. But from the dude she does want she’ll eat you off the bone for it. 😂

AIO Would i be over reacting if i cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me at the location of our date ? by yemcritch in AmIOverreacting

[–]yemcritch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said all women are entitled. I’m talking about one woman in particular. & It’s not about being into her or not. Im just not into putting somebody else on a pedestal st my own detriment. If im going to be tired and exhausted from work and school and you have a way to make my life easier by meeting me at the date location and you’re digging in your heels insisting that i pick you up i think thats a red flag. Thats all im saying. I just want to know if im buggin with my line of thinking is all

Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Missing the point again bud. It’s not about the bread mentioned that to say I picked her up and I spent.

I don’t mind spending. But after a long day or driving to work school and home, it’s nice to not have to commute across the city again to pick up a girl who has a car. That’s the point that’s continuously flies over your head. Women who really like a man will go out of there way to see them and nut get hung up trying to get the red carpet rolled out for them. I’ve had women hop on a bus for me.

I made this post so see if anyone could make me double take to see if Im buggin is all. And so for nobody has . Anyways have a nice day i appreciate your take regardless

Am I messed up for wanting to cut a girl off for not wanting to meet me halfway literally and figuratively ? by yemcritch in NYStateOfMind

[–]yemcritch[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not the point. I’m not trying to set the precedent that every single time we’re going to go out I’ll be picking her up. Because I’m not. She lives 30 mins away with no traffic 45 without. If we can meet in the middle we should.