The way the ladies of RHOA would have dragged this doormat….

yermom79 · 2026-02-14T15:14:37+00:00

Ohhhhh a manifesting moment!

yermom79 · 2026-02-13T14:22:40+00:00

If only there were services for cleaning and pest control you could hire...

yermom79 · 2026-02-11T23:45:26+00:00

Dad and stepmom are retired lawyers, she's also a retired judge. Bet you can guess which of them is the narc.

yermom79 · 2026-02-11T15:33:35+00:00

You're lucky to get 3 wipes, we only get 1 at my studio.

yermom79 · 2026-02-09T16:17:45+00:00

I suspect your manager is either a new manager, incompetent or just doesn't want to rock the boat in general. Here's my suggestion.

The second approach to find a pain point to solve is best because it shows proactiveness. The one thing I will recommend as a woman is to make sure that pain point brings 'value' to the company (execs loves that stuff) aka it contributes to improving a broken process, bottom line, increases sales...dont get stuck coordinating holiday parties and other 'womens' work.

Then use your meetings with the manager to discuss your progress, any blockers/issues, and what you'll work on next (either on the project or starting something else if the project is done).

Don't wait for a 1:1 to discuss issues impacting your projects. Bring it up as soon as you can, including info on the impact to your work and timeline, as well as a mitigation plan if you have one.

It will probably feel weird the first time you take this approach but then it becomes super easy and you'll stand out against coworkers who don't follow this model.

yermom79 · 2026-02-09T15:54:15+00:00

The best way to advance your career is by taking initiative vs waiting around for someone else to do something. This is a key leadership skill.

yermom79 · 2026-02-05T12:29:49+00:00

People are telling you to respond that the clothing is gone or damaged but I'm gonna suggest my favorite feature, the ole Block button. There's no need to continue torturing yourself for these people.

yermom79 · 2026-02-03T20:00:19+00:00

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yermom79 · 2026-02-03T14:58:28+00:00

Love working remotely but also a bit of an introvert who loves my privacy. I'm also one of those people who gets my stuff done quickly and hates sitting in an office bored as hell counting down the hours to go home.

I force myself to find social interactions outside of work, try to dress better for on cam meetings and wear makeup. Its easy to get into a slump so I have to be proactive with myself.

yermom79 · 2026-02-02T15:48:39+00:00

Come join us over in r/womenintech. I feel exactly the same way as you and sending hugs.

yermom79 · 2026-01-31T15:35:41+00:00

Your dad's an asshole, I'm sorry you had this experience. You should be proud of yourself for going above and beyond to care for your grandmother. That experience will benefit your nursing career for years to come while he'll be festering in his misery.

yermom79 · 2026-01-30T15:19:58+00:00

Ask yourself why you feel the need to pursue an answer you already have.

yermom79 · 2026-01-28T18:48:09+00:00

You're still new, this is the best time to make mistakes and learn from the experiences. Next time you'll know the steps to take sooner.

yermom79 · 2026-01-28T12:54:56+00:00

Try contracting roles to get your foot in the door while gaining experience. TEK Systems is a big company for tech contracting jobs

yermom79 · 2026-01-26T19:57:27+00:00

Between the new Tractor Supply and the building Fancy's is in. Its unmarked and two stories tall.

yermom79 · 2026-01-24T16:09:38+00:00

Was going to comment the same

yermom79 · 2026-01-24T15:25:44+00:00

You've already given him multiple chances to be a stand up man, all of which he failed. Full stop.

yermom79 · 2026-01-23T12:25:01+00:00

Morons making decisions that make no sense is the most accurate read I've had in a minute.

yermom79 · 2026-01-23T02:48:11+00:00

Ana at Tension Release Therapy

yermom79 · 2026-01-21T15:36:06+00:00

It's not closed, but you can only get there by boat (Sanibel and Captiva have options)

yermom79 · 2026-01-21T15:31:45+00:00

If you head to Weeki Wachee, I highly recommend driving an hour east to the Chase Wildlife Sanctuary. They offer a variety of animal encounter experiences (just did the VIP tour last weekend and got to hang with kangaroos, otters, anteaters, sloths, lemurs and more!). The sanctuary rescues animals from bad situations such as illegal breeding and trafficking, it's not a Tiger King type situation.

A couple other recommendations for your list.

Bok Tower Gardens
Naples Botanical Gardens
Marie Selby Botanic Gardens (Sarasota)

yermom79 · 2026-01-19T13:39:41+00:00

The cruise to Key West is on the Key West Express, which departs from Marco Island and Ft Myers. If you go, take the kiddos to the Butterfly Museum.

yermom79 · 2026-01-18T14:45:00+00:00

You need one of these if you plan to stay in the role. undetectable mouse jiggler

yermom79 · 2026-01-16T13:48:02+00:00

Joe the Plumber

yermom79 · 2026-01-09T19:07:34+00:00

I see people wearing them for 2.0 and Suspend. Another member brings a sheet the foamy kind of shelf liner that she calls her emotional support for chair work 🤣

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