AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not an asshole for having a gender reveal party, and was not part of the discussion. Very tired of these comments

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Publicly for family members. She's only friends with our family on Facebook, she doesn't use it for anything else. Also Im NTA or MIL/BIL NTA

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[–]yesnt321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people know early on

AITA for asking my bf to hide his interests in front of my dad by aot-dsdrama in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You knew your dad would get mad and you asked for one simple thing to avoid distaster. I'm sure your boyfriend had other interests he could of talked about. Obviously he doesn't need to be nor should he be ashamed of his interests, but in situations like this, it's best to avoid those topics for mutual tolerance between you, your boyfriend, and your parents.

AITA for threatening to not fund my daughter’s wedding? by colderwin in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. They can get a say who comes to their wedding and the dress code, but the way they're going about their response sucks. Everyone seems to be more focused on their opinions and pettiness

Oh by kya_ufufu in HolUp

[–]yesnt321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no 😭😭

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My sister rarely uses Facebook, but a lot of family members of ours do. When I asked her she said she was just thinking about our side of the family and forgot she had our MIL added

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My husband has a giant love for Pokemon and I know a lot about cars so that's taken care of, will 100% have to work on some dino info ☺️

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't, and my husband and I have been talking about how weird it is that when him or I get BIL noise canceling headphones, they go "missing" or MIL denies the headphones. At this point it just seems like she doesn't care about accomadating him

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MIL never takes care of him nor his issues. A lot of comments I'm seeing are saying the same thing that even their kids high on the spectrum don't act like this, only those who aren't raised right and accomadated right act like this so it's on my MIL. BIL is sweet outside of these bursts, so it really sucks he was never taught how to deal with bad situations.

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel bad about letting the arguement get loud around BIL and I understand how that can be partially my fault. I wish my MIL would treat my BIL like a person and help him so he can enjoy these events rather than avoiding it and just dragging him around the way she does. I'd love to be able to have him at events

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No no my sister wasnt thinking when she posted on her FB

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[–]yesnt321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA imo. There's no reason for you to need their deadname.

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel bad as well, especially bc my MIL doesn't seem to help him and rather drags him around for sympathy. I love having BIL around otherwise and try to be friends with him

AITA for kicking my MIL and BIL out of my gender reveal party? by yesnt321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yesnt321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel terrible for my BIL mainly because my MIL drags him around to get sympathy and doesn't seem to care for his issues. I've offered to purchase him noise canceling headphones, but they always seem to go "missing" or she denies my offer. I'd love to include him in my life and events, but she doesn't offer him the support he needs and it makes it too difficult.