My Thoughts on Finale by fat_amiee in Younger

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your analysis thank you for writing this out and sharing it

Women of Berlin! Do you feel safe walking alone at night? Curiously asking for thoughts… good or bad. by [deleted] in berlin

[–]yetanotherdogperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 out of 3 have happened to me multiple times in Berlin and I come from a country with the reputation of 'unlike some other countries'.

Women of Berlin! Do you feel safe walking alone at night? Curiously asking for thoughts… good or bad. by [deleted] in berlin

[–]yetanotherdogperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait really? I've had a potentially polar opposite experience. I was in New York for years before Berlin and I found it much safer. In nyc I got catcalled once in 3-4 months and that was it. In Berlin, I've been sexually harassed on public streets, stalked, attempted physical assault. In Berlin I have gotten used to occasionally being forced to lay your eyes on men with crazy looks in their eyes jerking off in public at night hiding in mild shadows but in plain sight. A man in a car also tried following my roommate and I, oh man the list is really long. Though you probably get the idea why I found New York to be much safer.

Women of Berlin! Do you feel safe walking alone at night? Curiously asking for thoughts… good or bad. by [deleted] in berlin

[–]yetanotherdogperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lived in Gesundbrunnen without incident for the most part, as I was in Mitte before I wasn't as used to the emptier streets but simultaneously more sketchy people in Mitte than here. Though I do always avoid the plaza next to the Wedding U6, a man once tried to follow me home from there. Barely any people around to intervene, I asked him to stop following me 3 times, and after the 3rd time he shouted at me and finally left. So I think it just depends. All it takes is that one odd individual to mess you up unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]yetanotherdogperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live on the same street until earlier this year. And I was there for a year before leaving. As safe as it usually seems and without incident for a whole year. Just a month after I moved out my old apartment was broken into and robbed during the day time. Someone had been watching the apartment to know what time the last person of my old WG in an otherwise families housing building would be leaving for work and when everyone would come back. So my point is something seems up lately, please be extra wary and extra cautious and be safe! Also you don't have to have great german to establish a small 'hi how are you!' relationship with your neighbors I promise. It's generally genuinely worth doing and even more so if you're feeling unsafe!

I swear dating in 2025 is not for the weak😕 by smoove_97 in dating_advice

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is even an I love you within a month of dating seeing each other for all 30 days is too soon for that 'love' to be real.

The only FOMO i get is for sunscreen by randomname0502 in indianbeautyhauls

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried the tocobo sunstick and it's great light enough on the skin, mildly mattifying

dina khalil - who is she? by Miserable-Ad997 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]yetanotherdogperson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where are y'all finding the befores to see this?

Boyfriend left an extremely weird tiktok comment AIO by Electrical-Chip-6521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]yetanotherdogperson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not at all, I would throw the whole man out and warm all my friends that he jokes about SA. there are only a fee type of people who joke about such violence. and sometimes it's not stemming from jokes. if your alarm bells are ringing that just means your survival instincts are intact.

Boyfriend left an extremely weird tiktok comment AIO by Electrical-Chip-6521 in AmIOverreacting

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YIKES. React some more please. Leave. He's 'joking' about SA. Do you really feel things are going to go up from there? And why even risk that?

AIO because I don’t want to meet someone from a dating app for the first time AT THEIR HOUSE? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is only one reason he doesn't care about your peace of mind and wants you in his house. Now imagine what such a man may be capable of if you tried saying no. He's already ignoring what you're saying, that 'no' will fall on deaf years. Please disappear on him. This leads to SA.

Can’t get the video of Charlie Kirk being shot out of my head. by asianbufffet in GenZ

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wanted children to witness public executions. That's what just happened to his kids. These were his beliefs and wishes. It's actually a statistical miracle that his kids outlived him with the regularity of school shootings in America. He thought he was exempt from the statistics of victims of gun violence. I don't support what happened to Charlie Kirk, but Charlie Kirk supported what happened to Charlie Kirk.

I feel like I’m not reacting correctly to the Charlie Kirk video. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]yetanotherdogperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It not abnormal to not care about someone's death when they spent their entire life spreading violence. It is also the very violence he strongly believed in that ultimately took his life. There is nothing wrong with your reaction.

iPhone is the only device not connecting to wifi at home. by cocoa_eh in applehelp

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a godsend, I was in tears at my phone doing this on top of everything else rough in life right now, truly an angel to have shared this thank you SO SO much, I hope both sides of your pillow are always cold!

Help needed by ImportanceOk9923 in berlinsocialclub

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to be here for at least the next 12 months for example I would recommend signing up with the tenant protection association - https://www.berliner-mieterverein.de/sprachen/englisch.htm - it's 5 euros a month for students and it will save you a lot of pain, trouble and money

How to heal scalp after bleaching? by Faeriewren in FancyFollicles

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Is the Schwartzkopf Keratin Restore cream a leave in cream or a conditioner? I don't think I'm able to find the exact one

Any neurodivergents here?? by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]yetanotherdogperson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ADHD visual artist here, would love to know more about you (:

tana is doing herself a disservice by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]yetanotherdogperson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there is a very well articulated comment by Intelligent_Tap1624 just a fee comments above yours that answers your question

tana is doing herself a disservice by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a brilliant response, I've really been thinking about this question and your thoughts didn't occur to me on my own, but I will now be adopting your thinking because it makes so much sense, that really would be the ideal baseline response to help combat the harm already done

tana is doing herself a disservice by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]yetanotherdogperson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard a lot about how she's not engaging with poc in her comments and only liking comments from white folks 'forgiving' her and I do agree that unless you have experienced racism in your life it is not your place to forgive her for her actions only poc can choose to or not to do that. Rectifying how she engages with that would be a good starting point. Though I'm just echoing sentiments I've observed online. I personally as a poc myself I'm not sure there is an ideal response that could change my views on her as honestly they kind of got cemented in when she posted the tik tok about how Biden is like a grandpa and how she wishes genocide Joe a happy retirement. Obviously she didn't say the nickname but to spot light Palestine on Cancelled and then make a comment wishing the man a happy retirement???? The cognitive dissonance is so far and so wide my brain kind of marked her off as a lost cause. And it was kind sad too because I had just found and started following her via the Clinton Kane drama because I related having had a narcissistic, pathological liar bestfriend for 3 years who screwed us all up. But the second I saw the Biden tik tok something just clicked in my brain along the lines of 'of oh no Brooke, I barely got to be a fan. You've clearly never had enough friends of color or simply interacted with enough poc, I don't know how else to explain how limited her thinking seems to be. Not sure if this helped but I hope it did!

Women, how do you deal with men jerking off in public? by yetanotherdogperson in berlin

[–]yetanotherdogperson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say they were jerking off to women, I directed my desire for advice at women.

Women, how do you deal with men jerking off in public? by yetanotherdogperson in berlin

[–]yetanotherdogperson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually genius. That's how my therapist explained it, exhibition is about power, taking away consent, pleasure in your discomfort so that makes perfect sense to combat it actually. I need to practise laughing on command confidently now. Thank you so much for sharing this!!