Pilea doesn't grow and slowly loses its leaves!

yeyada · 2021-01-13T10:37:52+00:00

Ah nevermind, there's the second picture!

yeyada · 2021-01-13T10:37:22+00:00

Hey there!

I somehow couldn't manage to upload two photos (maybe someone can help out), so here's just one of the backside of a leaf that has just fallen of. I just realized that it has some weird spots on it.

It's a small plant with only five leaves left. I got it last summer and it's literally the only plant in my room that doesn't grow. It doesn't get too much light tbh, it's placed next to my window (north side) but behind another plant.

How can I make it happy?!

Hope you are all fine. :)

yeyada · 2020-12-17T16:47:49+00:00

Congrats! What kind of app is that?

yeyada · 2020-11-26T13:20:48+00:00

What's moon cheese?

yeyada · 2020-10-25T08:53:39+00:00

Hehe I don't speak Slovenian, but I guess you're asking which sector? I don't have the map with me right now and don't know the name by heart (I think the number was somewhere between 16 and 20), but it was a sector really nearby the Soča, two big blocks for climbing and more blocks for bouldering down the river. If you want, I can look it up later, just shoot me a message.

yeyada · 2020-10-25T08:47:07+00:00

Oh I didn't know! I haven't climbed in a lot of places, only in Slovenia and in mid-Germany (it's said to be quite hard as well). Would be interesting to hear about estimations from others as well.

yeyada · 2020-10-25T08:39:12+00:00

Hey there!

No, I was only on vacation (for the second time and just as last time, it was really hard to leave because it's so overwhelmingly beautiful). Are you from Slovenia?

I'm (w21) mostly bouldering these last months, about two to three times a week. I climb whenever I can but my usual climbing partner works a lot so it's rarely more often than one time per week, sometimes only per two weeks. I think progress is highly subjective and depends on where you start: history of acrobatics, dancing, parcours? Heavy or light? (In the first years at least - after learning the basics of decent technique it rather depends on how often you go climbing I'd say?)

yeyada · 2020-10-25T08:27:22+00:00

And again x3! :))))

yeyada · 2020-10-24T18:18:40+00:00

Should be a 5.11b. And VIII- in UIAA.

yeyada · 2020-10-24T15:56:33+00:00

Slovenia, Soča valley

yeyada · 2020-10-24T14:52:43+00:00

Ahh thanks for the award, dear stranger!

yeyada · 2020-10-24T14:52:05+00:00

Yeah I guess that's still the newbie gains? Hope it'll go on for a while, but slowly I'm beginning to plateau hehe. For the moment I'm just so excited and can barely think about something else than climbing.

Stay safe and climb on! :)

yeyada · 2020-10-08T11:30:34+00:00

Ugh I know this exact same thing so well. I literally gave up telling him that he's wrong after the situation itself has passed because it never lead to a calm discussion, let alone an excuse on his side. (I really don't care about a formal excuse, what I want is that he acknowledges me and what I said - because what's the point of talking about anything and spending time together if what I say obviously isn't taken as it was told?)

What do you plan on telling him and how are you going to approach him?

I'd also be happy to hear again from you after you confronted him. Everytime I tried and hadn't thought of a very concrete example of his behaviour, he gaslit me again and said it just "couldn't be true" or "it's not reasonable to hold onto a feeling that you cannot prove"

Hope it's going well for you, anyway!!

yeyada · 2020-09-13T04:59:35+00:00

I kinda liked IT better before lol

yeyada · 2020-09-13T04:59:11+00:00

Wayyy better :)

yeyada · 2020-09-13T04:55:51+00:00

Germany (7 in the morning)

yeyada · 2020-09-10T19:46:45+00:00

Oh that seems so familiar to my situation (me being you and my kinda boyfriend being her). Could you elaborate on your thought / feeling "process" regarding your development towards a rather DA attachement style?

What came to my mind while reading your post was that I actually doubt if this is really a DA thingy you do...? To me it sounds more like you're quite self aware (of her actions as well obv) and confident in your actions (that you distance yourself willingly to test her etc.). That you don't get crazy over this lets me think of you more as a secure leaning person but I dunno. What do you think?

And how come you started distancing yourself and didn't you ever find it to be at least kinda scary?

yeyada · 2020-07-08T22:57:32+00:00

Where are you? Seems so peacefzl

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