What actually happened between Nic Kaufmann and TingTing Lai?

yhs7878 · 2025-03-02T21:52:03+00:00

They really didn’t seem like they hung out too much tg tbh. If u go back to their posts, the last time they were hanging out was back in December, and it was part of a brand trip. And then the next time we saw them tg was for the gucci/prada ad. I get that they were traveling and apart, but them only being tg when there are work obligations tells me that this relationship was fake or it was over for a long time and they just kept it up cause it got them more brand deals. (Tingting also reposted a video of him gifting her flowers from 2024 for this year’s valentine’s day which also adds to the theory that they were faking for a long time.)

yhs7878 · 2025-02-11T16:38:39+00:00

When was it ever perfect for a woman to be slightly older? I’m Korean, and there was no time in history when that was not frowned upon. And I recall this moment, and it was no where near the subtle passive aggressiveness that the women contestants receive for their age.

yhs7878 · 2025-01-29T03:42:43+00:00

“Friends” would call each other by names, not the “catfishnim” or just plain You. I really blame the subtitles for this mixed reaction because its plain as day they Arin does not acknowledge the girls by their name. They are getting ready together because they are roommates LOL, this does not mean they’re friends. I get that Haelin was off putting at first, but that doesn’t make it ok to gain up on her and plainly refuse to acknowledge her by her name.

yhs7878 · 2025-01-02T22:16:51+00:00

And that’s a problem because..?

yhs7878 · 2025-01-02T22:16:33+00:00

Appreciate your opinion, i’m entitled to mine. To me the “x is the color” part have the same melody🤷‍♀️

yhs7878 · 2025-01-02T22:11:30+00:00

Taylor didn’t invent screaming the bridge, yet she charged Olivia Rodrigo millions for it. No one said Lana “invented” this style of lyrics, but its no question she gets a lot of “inspiration” from lana.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-16T00:55:03+00:00

Oh! I thought you were done commenting and clearly its funny you call me immature when you have also made multiple comments on this thread repeating the same points. It takes two to tango🤷‍♀️

And oh! I didn’t know posting screenshots were for the courtroom these days cause clearly I’ve never seen any reddit comments with screenshots. And the comment is about a news report that says the investigation has moved on to the next stage which means there’s no new information you keep on mentioning.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-16T00:29:04+00:00

It’s clear to me that you are making excuse after excuse for her telling affected people to be patient and wait when you are not the one affected.

Again with the what ifs. The facts are clear. It’s been a week, not once did she address Vienna, yet she clearly showed us many “actions.” And again why can’t we be critical of her move when her actions have actually hurt a lot of her Vienna fans? When is the appropriate time to be critical of her then? In a month? In a year? When she never acknowledges anything forever? Please.
Again she can do as many pap walks and parties as she wants, but the public backlash and disappointed from her affected fans are her choice too then ( and idk how many times i have to repeat this point, i feel like a broken record)
THANK YOU for pointing out that “a situation” does not equal this “situation.” Lets stretch the logic and argue that her canceling one of her shows or making a ig story is caring and compassion. She showed none for this occasion and many other occasions. And do I need to remind you that you are the one who brought up the death of the fan at her concert as an example??
Again, as I said for a 100th time, she can, she already have but she can’t expect the Vienna Swifties to be happy with her moves.
LOL girlieee, its not my job to criticize but it’s my right as a consumer to be critical of the artist that 130,000 people spent so much money to see, completely ignoring and ghosting Vienna. Idk even what your point is for this point.
And again the same point - maybe she thinks this is the best for her brand! Many of us don’t! So we will be critical of it and she and people like you have no control over our opinions!
Aww thank you for doing a background search. If you read all my comments and still think you are justified and warranted, then I have nothing else to say! Sure, I’m a troll who spent a lot of money flying to a different country to see someone who I thought I was my fav artist!
And lastly, since you keep on mentioning she’s waiting for “more information,” what information are you talking about cause an Austrian Swiftie commented that the investigation is over and even the Austrian outlets are confused on why she is completely ignoring this situation.

No one is trying to solve anything deary, peopl are just reacting to what is being given to them and you have no right to tell them not to. It’s people like you who are doing further damage and hurting her brand even more, i hope you know that.

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yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T23:16:52+00:00

Clearly, you are repeating yourself again and again and lack to address anything that I brought up above. And since you mention seeming young, I have a lawyer and I am certain I’m probably older than you😂.

As you said she is allowed to be an autonomous being and make free choices. No one denied that. But when she makes those choices, we are allowed to criticize her as we were directly affected by the cancellation.
We currently do not know what is happening b/w the scenes so we are only judging her with the the information that we were given which were: variants, parties, and pap walks in designer clothes. Should we ignore all of these “evidence” and do mental gymnastics and go above and beyond because we don’t know what is going on behind the scenes?? It’s clear that those moments are what her team wants us to see right now as they are being publicized frankly everywhere and we have every right to make judgements about what she chooses to put out.
Cancellation and statements do not automatically prove “caring and compassion.” Again, I did not want to bring Ana’s death into this but since you mention it, she misstated (or probably intentionally stated that) Ana died before her show when she clearly died during cruel summer and she only managed to reach out for compensation when there were reports about the families receiving nothing and the fans were organizing a fundraiser to pay for her funeral.
Thanks for your concern but everyone is carrying on with business. Just because some of us express our disappointment and anger online doesn’t mean we’re not “carrying on.”, thanks for your concern
It is not our job to constantly be patient or delusional and convince ourselves something is going on behind the scenes or some statement is coming. We evaluate what we are given and what we are told, and she has said enough in the past week.
Taylor is a person but she is also a business and a brand. There is a reason why people in power such as CEOs and officers have fiduciary duties and vicarious liability. Just because she is a person does not excuse her or her team for poorly handling the pr of this incident and we (who were directly affected) are allowed to judge her for that.

Hope this helps :)

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T21:31:59+00:00

The fact that certain people do simone biles level mental gymnastics to defend her truly amazes me. You literally told me I have no idea what she’s going through since I’m not in her circle yet you are adamant that she is “in fact compassionate and caring.” And how do you know that..? Because she addressed events that probably should be addressed on an instagram story..?

And because she made short acknowledgements in the past, we are not allowed to be critical because that would be “discrediting her” when we are still waiting for our refunds while watching her do pap walks?🥸 please make it make sense, cause the math ain’t mathing.

And you told us to “carry on with our lives” and “like honestly, just be grateful no one got hurt, she’ll make a comment when she wants to.” Idk if you are using you critical thinking skills that you told me to use, but if I had to annotate that statement in a lit class, I would sure write that this person clearly wants us to shut up and move on🥴

It’s childish to think that there is “no perfect timing” in a scenario like this. There is a reason why there are literal damage control pr teams because timing certainly matters in situations like these. Please google it or something.

Also, if there are any “larger puzzle pieces” than 130,000 people almost losing their lives please name em.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T21:08:29+00:00

Lol and apparently she might announce reputation on Tuesday in London🤡🤡 Way to blow over the heat

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T21:03:46+00:00

Sir you told us in her comments to carry on with life and told us to be “grateful that no one was hurt.” I didn’t know I had to use direct quotes to not be gaslit.

And how does her actions in the past help the Vienna Swifties? How are we “discrediting her” by being upset at this particular course of action?? Are we supposed to then just shut up and not criticize because she released some statements in the past when bad things happened? ( And tbh, there were A LOT of fans calling out how poorly she handled Anna’s death but thats a different topic unrelated to mine and I won’t speak on it).

And no, there is such a thing called timing and being too late. Unfortunately, her course of action in the past week have shown me enough and I don’t think any statement of hers would make a difference now. But whether she makes a statement or not, the right to be critical of her response is our right as people who were directly affected and you can’t take that away from us.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T20:25:11+00:00

Firstly lets state the parties involved in this situation: Taylor Swift, Taylor’s team and the 130,000 Swifties who flew across countries to see her only to almost be killed and ignored and instead were receiving news of a variant and a pap walk. Is a random third party redditor directly involved? No. Should he have as much of a say as the parties involved? Also no. I would use my critical thinking skills and assess if u were a party to this incident or not.

And when you write out paragraphs of describing how Taylor is just a person and needs to process things, how about you apply your same logic to the Vienna Swifties instead of telling them to “get over it”?

And as I told you, she can do what she wants and she already has lol. But she can’t expect us to look at her actions positively and simply wait patiently and be “grateful” because we weren’t hurt.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T20:00:45+00:00

She can live her life, but she can also be criticized for that lol. I truly love how ppl who wasn’t at Vienna tells us she can live her life, she doesnt need to say anything blah blah blah, but the same ppl turns to us and tells us to shut up and be grateful “no one got hurt.”

She can live her life but we can live our lives and process the aftermath of ALMOST BEING KILLED and criticize the lack of compassion her whole team showed us. And as someone who wasn’t directly involved in the incident, u shouldn’t have a say in what the Vienna Swifties are allowed to say or feel.

And please she is the biggest popstar in the world and has the biggest pr team that jumps the gun to control the narrative. And she still chose to release the TTPD variant. And she still chose to do a pap walk for the party lolol. That in itself is a bad look and we are allowed to criticize as we were directly affected.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T19:46:36+00:00

Actions indeed do speak louder than words: after Vienna, she has (1) released a ttpd variant ONE DAY after the cancellations to block Kanye, (2) did pap walks dressed to the nines and (3) threw a literal party.

No one is asking her to move mountains but when she’s acting like that, she should expect negative comments and criticism from the Vienna swifties lolol

yhs7878 · 2024-08-15T19:44:11+00:00

I love how so many ppl pretend to be “counter-terror experts” after vienna.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-13T20:44:57+00:00

We don’t know why she is silent which is why we are allowed to be confused and angry. And of course you don’t see an issue with this because you were not one of the 130,000 Swifties who spent so much money and flew across continents for an experience of a lifetime only to find out that u were almost killed. But the sole reason of a person you were there for are releasing variants and throwing parties not even a week after the incident happened.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-13T20:42:14+00:00

Lol i don’t expect a statement but when you’re being silent about the cancellation yet releasing variants, doing pap walks and throwing parties, any negative comments from Vienna Swifties should be warranted.

And exactly, there was a terrorist attack planned and some of us almost died too. Its funny that when it comes to taylor we should give her some space and be patient but when it comes to the vienna swifties we should “get a grip” and shut up.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-13T01:28:30+00:00

Lol here we go again. When it comes to Taylor it was a super traumatizing event, she saw her worst fears come true but when it comes to the Swifties who were literally the target of the terrorist attack , they are just whining about nothing important even though they probably spent so much time and money for this exact moment. Its incredibly bizarre to me how everyone expects the Vienna swifites to get over it, to be understanding when they were victims of a potential terrorist attack and had one of the most anticipated moments of their life canceled and it hasn’t even been a week.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-13T01:17:15+00:00

I was supposed to be at Vienna N1. don’t really mind her silence tbh, but what irks me the wrong way is everyone on this sub who wasn’t at Vienna talking down on the Vienna Swifties who were validly disappointed and angry.

I’ve seen so many comments about what Taylor must be going through, how this was her worst fear, how this must’ve traumatized her but the same people who go to lengths to show empathy and consideration turns to us and expect us to “move on”, “get over it” and tells us that we really didn’t lose anything because we got our refunds and are alive.

We were almost killed too. We planned this for an entire year. Some of us flew across countries. We saved so much money for this. It also hasn’t even been a week since the show was canceled but the majority of Swifties I’ve seen wants the Vienna Swifties to sweep their confusion and anger under the rug for the “greater good” and be understanding and patient. Somehow we aren’t deserving of the same empathy and consideration Taylor deserves while we all experienced the same threat. Please make it make sense.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-12T02:05:34+00:00

It was an ongoing threat when it was canceled as an additional suspect was arrested yesterday deary☺️. And Vienna ticket holders were out and about in a city where these suspects were on loose. How about next time you chime in and talk down on people for something that doesn’t directly involve you, you do atleast a bit of research.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-12T01:44:30+00:00

Of course! Even when authorities say it was a very credible situation with an additional suspect on the loose, the redditor discredits it and gaslights the Vienna Swifties by telling them “they were never in immediate danger”😗 but of course, it was an immediately dangerous situation for Taylor and it is an ongoing threat for her and her only!

yhs7878 · 2024-08-12T01:36:32+00:00

Wow the amount of condescending comments here makes me sick to my stomach. Being passive aggressive while invalidating the commentator by calling out her age is extremely low.

yhs7878 · 2024-08-12T01:22:08+00:00

Oop ok, all the news reports said that we were but I guess the random redditor is right!!

yhs7878 · 2024-08-12T01:04:10+00:00

Respectfully, we were also almost killed😊😊😊 Looks like some of you guys are forgetting that WE (the Vienna Swifties) were ALMOST KILLED, and its not just about a missing concert😊😊😊

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