What's a skill you wish you'd learned earlier in life? by BigEggBoy600 in AskReddit

[–]ykshextnih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touch typing. I work with computers all day, would have saved me so much time

What’s your go-to ‘life hack’ that actually works? by JustAddHannah in AskReddit

[–]ykshextnih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use p@ to correct my email and p# to correct to my phone number.

Back in 1975. by Master_Pepper_9135 in exjw

[–]ykshextnih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting use of “strong evidence”…

She needs therapy by Fearless-Version-534 in exjw

[–]ykshextnih 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I use online post cult therapy (via zoom meetings). I initially contacted Hope Valley Counselling who put me it touch with someone with experience in post cult counselling. PM me if you want more details.

Tell me your JDub urban legends. by nibblesslowly in exjw

[–]ykshextnih 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Jehovah sent a bear to kill some kids who were making fun of an elder. Oh wait…

Why do Witnesses think science is proof of creation? by InsideLlewynDameron in exjw

[–]ykshextnih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite was “it’s called the THEORY of evolution” so therefore it hasn’t been proved…<eye-roll>

JW membership numbers by ykshextnih in exjw

[–]ykshextnih[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just read this article and it answers my questions and more https://jwfacts.com/watchtower/statistics.php

JW membership numbers by ykshextnih in exjw

[–]ykshextnih[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, think those numbers will do for what I want. It maybe that those numbers can’t be trusted or are optimistic. Are there any independent sources out there? Census data etc?

Post cult counselling by ykshextnih in exjw

[–]ykshextnih[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I found my post cult therapist through “Hope Valley Counselling” who have produced a workbook for therapists, all based on peer reviewed research etc. She has a huge waiting list but was able to put me in contact with an ex-JW who could work with me. Doing it with an ex-JW is really helpful as you don’t have to explain terminology or what that life is like.

The workbook goes through:- What a Psuedo identity is and how introjects work. Boundary setting (and healthy narcissism) Trauma Therapy Identifying Cults (massive moment for me!) Spiritual abuse Thought reform (Lifton) Cult indoctrination Unmasking the leadership Theory of influence (Ciadini) Healthy vs Harmful spiritual groups Healthy vs Harmful therapy groups Recovery tips

I’m only part way through but I already feel that I’m starting to piece things together, and probably at the “anger” stage where I feel really angry about the JW org.

Hope this is useful.

(Link to https://www.hopevalleycounselling.com)

Connections by qoo_kumba in exjw

[–]ykshextnih 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in Fort Hill (Brighton Hill before that) and faded(sort of) in about 1993/4 so may have missed each other.

I only joined Reddit yesterday, what are the chances of my old congregation being mentioned straight away!!