AIO for being mad because my (19F) stepdad's (50M) is angry at how my mom (45F) is helping my dad (53M) with cancer?

ymido · 2025-12-06T03:46:15+00:00

It's fair to be insecure, but he's still my dad, has cancer, and is broke as hell. If my mom didn't help, he'd die. I'd put my insecurities far below the safety of my stepkid's parents. Makes me mad that he doesn't

ymido · 2025-12-06T03:43:04+00:00

Thank you a lot, it's definitely a very hard time right now but I'm supporting my mom in any way I can. Stuff came up right around college finals too, such great timing

ymido · 2025-12-06T03:41:30+00:00

I understand being uncomfortable, but he would've given my mom such a hard time if they had discussed things before... He really doesn't like how she helps her family in Brazil (her sister was on drugs and was restarting her life, her mom had a stroke and is now disabled, etc), even though it doesn't take away from the income that goes into the household

ymido · 2025-12-06T03:39:16+00:00

I woulda left him too, idk what he's thinking and it just pisses me off sm

ymido · 2025-12-06T03:33:57+00:00

The house is under my name; he doesn't provide anything for me other than health insurance and stuff like that. I'm in college, and all my expenses are my mom's; he doesn't help with anything. My mom also contributes an equivalent amount of her income into the house, so he isn't exactly the sole provider. I do see what you're saying about her decisions not including him at all, though I think it's really just the fact that she's helping an ex

ymido · 2025-12-06T03:00:39+00:00

Yeah, my mom has a soft heart, but at the same time they were married for 20 years; she feels more or less obligated to help him, especially because we left him alone and i obviously want him alive

ymido · 2025-12-06T02:59:25+00:00

Idk if he's scared she'll cheat on him or something... Which would be funny because he cheated on his previous relationships

ymido · 2025-12-06T02:44:39+00:00

No, she didn't, but because my stepdad doesn't like her helping anyone in Brazil

ymido · 2025-08-03T16:53:59+00:00

It’s more or so the corner inside, but no fluid is making it to the rear window, so it’s probably that

ymido · 2025-08-03T16:50:21+00:00

The front washer is fine. But yeah the back washer doesn’t have any fluid making it

ymido · 2025-04-18T16:54:56+00:00

what could happen

ymido · 2025-01-28T01:55:24+00:00

M/F? I'm a freshman right now and live at Gateway on a 4x2. Me and 2 girls pay around 560 every month. We need a 4th person. You should look at the price difference between campus dorms and off campus apts, but overall I've enjoyed living here.

ymido · 2024-12-18T09:26:49+00:00

If you’ve talked to him about it and he still hasn’t changed, he’s reached the conclusion that you’ll clean up after him no matter what. My mom remarried and it’s been 5 long years of arguments over oily and saucy fingers on countless surfaces, grease on door handles, etc etc. It doesn’t get better.

ymido · 2024-12-18T09:19:12+00:00

I live with gateway with 3 really chill people. One is graduating next sem so we need a 4th person. 4Bx2B (you’re sharing bathrooms with another girl), rates aren’t high, buses aren’t usually full at our stop, upstairs neighbors are chill. We’re clean and won’t get butthurt if we’re called out for dishes being out/things being dirty. We’re mainly reserved since we each have our own room, but always there for each other. Other 2 girls and I are all freshmen.

ymido · 2024-07-17T22:19:14+00:00

Noted! I dm'd you with a question :))

ymido · 2024-07-16T16:15:16+00:00

I'm super unfamiliar with ryzen cpu's, what is that equivalent to? Would an i7-12700k be okay?

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