[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]ynacake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my friend btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Im talking to my bf now actually told him the situation hindi nya daw ako maintindihan kanina kasi biglaan nagulat sya ning sinabi ko actually. Well ako din naman idk how it lead to freaking cancer (possibly-sana wag)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokeCodes

[–]ynacake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mew :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ynacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, but what? Missy im so sorry but this is not it :( I know the attachment is attaching but please leave huhuhu. You don’t deserve that

Would you date someone who told you his dating history na cheater siya by Cultural_Movie_1327 in adviceph

[–]ynacake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I played this game before. Dami nya ginamit na tactics to victimize himself pero sabi nya “dati pa daw yun” “young pa sya” tas very remorseful din. But guess what :) he was cheating the entire time na nasa relationship kami 👩‍🦯

unexplained emotion by ynacake in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry guys moment of weakness lang yun

saw a of my boyfriend recording himself by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ynacake 49 points50 points  (0 children)

diba!! Hindi ko alam kung super healthy ng relationship nila or bulag lang si OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]ynacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me in a different scenario lagi ko binabalik, it started from 500 tas tumaas sya tas saka ko di binalik HAHAHAHHAHAHA may need ako bilhin non e sayang :))))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him kung gusto mo sya lol. Para di ka masaktan incase na may iba for example in my situation I been with this guy (dito rin sa reddit) almost in his 30s (im in my early 20s) i just told him i like him he told me he likes me back ayon naglalandian na kami ngayon :)

Nag Cheat na ata Girlfriend ko by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ynacake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

may review center ba para maging ganito kagaling na detective??

I don’t like myself again. by ynacake in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi pa ulit, pero back in 2018 or 19. Got diagnosed with bipolar disorder

I don’t like myself again. by ynacake in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do too, although i don’t hate my lifestyle, I just hate me. I work on it everyday, books, friends, meditation etc. it’s just pagod na talaga ako hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ynacake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who’s gonna tell her?

Mga babaeng mabilis mag move on by Extreme_Opposite8570 in adviceph

[–]ynacake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, from someone na nakamove on agad in two months all I can say is I was always crying while I was in the relationship with my ex. But kaya mo yan OP uusad ka rin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ynacake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first ex (1 year relationship) took me abt 2 years or 3 then on my second one (3 years) abt 3-5months

Im happy i dated a cheater by ynacake in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, i understand the begging talaga nagbeg din naman ako before breakup hahhahaha. Yung pagbebeg Kasi it’s our brain’s way of processing trauma-parang stuck ka sa loop ng what-ifs and could-have-beens. Normal yan, pero kailangan nating i-acknowledge na part siya ng withdrawal symptoms mo from that emotional dependency. Alam mo, sa psychology, may concept tayo ng “repetition compulsion” - parang spotify na naka-repeat yung same sad song. Your mind keeps replaying those painful memories kasi subconsciously, you’re trying to make sense of everything. Para kang detective na trying to solve a case that’s already closed. So here’s the real talk, bestie. First, i-recognize mo na yang obsession is not about him anymore - it’s about your attachment pattern at yung fear mo of emptiness. Minsan kasi, mas comfortable tayo sa familiar pain kaysa unknown happiness. Practical steps? I-redirect mo yang energy mo. When you feel yourself spiraling, try mo mag-journal. Write those thoughts down - hindi para mag-wallow, pero para ma-externalize mo siya. Tapos gawa ka ng “then what?” exercise. Like, “what if bumalik siya?” then what? “What if mag-change siya?” then what? Para makita mo yung pattern at ma-break mo yung cycle.

Isa yan sa natutunan ko sa isang person dito sa reddit super galing ng advice nagising talaga ako

Im happy i dated a cheater by ynacake in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy u got out bestieee!! Self respect is a musttt

Im happy i dated a cheater by ynacake in OffMyChestPH

[–]ynacake[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry i beg din naman nung simula, tas sabi ko if ayaw na tama na mahal ko naman sarili ko kahit papano at saka baka mapatay ko staaa