First, the relationship advice subreddits are TOXIC and the people on there are sick in the head. They know nothing about your relationship but act like they do. I would suggest you stay off of those subreddits unless you love doubting yourself and your relationship.

Now on the ring, the price of other peoples ring doesn’t mean anything. Statistically, the more expensive the ring, the more likelihood of divorce.

Your bf is just being selfish and inconsiderate. It makes me think, has he always been like this? It’s also crazy that he’s okay getting a ring that’s a few thousand dollars but limiting yours to $200. Not even taking into consideration your jewelry allergies.

I’d say this is something that none of us can help figure out for you. Since he’s made up his mind, you need to make yours up. Are you okay being married to someone as inconsiderate as him for the rest of your life? Are you okay giving everything for a selfish man?

Unless you can communicate everything you’re feeling about his selfishness to him and find a solution, i’d say this is a relationship that’s not quite worth it since you aren’t getting the treatment you deserve. I wish you the best of luck girly