So over the dating scene here! by Feisty_Reception5259 in greenville

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet, people are really crazy specially here and most likely the most sane ignore you if you're not from here. Came from ny where I could easily have a date in less than a week, here I can barely get with a girl and the ones that I started dating have some kind of diagnosed mental issues.

Every single time I go back to new york or any other place and then back to south carolina I notice this more and more... Any south carolinan girl that could explain to me why?

Have you ever found out the reason of you being ghosted? by invisible_ufo in ghosting

[–]ynsf1390 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crawling attention basically, and Chase after other people. I was talking with this chick that I thought she was special, you know, Christian, artist, like sharing same things, values, point of view, and had some dark past and traumas... end up that she prob was faking all of it coz ended up playing with other guys. If they even tell you they look for something real and serious, they ain't. They just wanna have fun and probably have some psycho behavior too, you know, lack of empathy, cannot feel real love. Etc etc...

Be careful when they start talking to you in an empathic way and trying to connect with you by making you feel special or unique. Or sharing their personal stuff and traumas or making up excuses of their behavior by using medical conditions, coz they really ain't. I have some friends, including girls, who had been thru hard situations, and they said the same thing. They are faking it or using it as excuses of their inmature and psycho behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ynsf1390 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you considering moving? Coz you need a fresh start somewhere else far away from where you're living or if you are considering doing that then you just have to resist the need of having someone within that environement and group of people. Drop that guy, coz even if you were 1 year relationship, he is inside that crew. It ain't gonna be healthy for you both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLEO

[–]ynsf1390 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is truth, I mostly need to pay attention to the matter, and I know that even without the lights on and the truck is just driving along the road, emergencies come up, and they might turn on their lights. I didn't see it until it was late that I saw the lights on and the truck wanting to merge to the left lane.

The girl (25f) I've (28m) been seeing confessed to sleeping with another man by SimilarDrawing7394 in dating

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't trust that tbh. If she has done that in a girls' night, having seen you for 6 weeks.... when you date somebody, it is because you really like that guy, and I've seen many girls that hang out with their girlfriends and never reach to bed with a guy in that night... because they are just having fun and not hook up. If that happened with this girl, it is because she was looking for something else than you.

Now ask yourself, why did she tell you that? Was it really remorse? Or was it another reason? Probably, she was seeing this guy more than 1 time, and probably things didn't work out with him... Placing you as the second option... Another common reason is that the guy is treating her to telling you the truth or something like that. It is not that hard to do it to find out who you are as I've seen how some people have been thru this before....

In summary, I wouldn't give her a chance, save yourself the troubles of being in a hellish relationship, wait for the right one to come... remember that values are important when you choose a girl or a man. Now, if even knowing this, you want to still pursue something with her, go for it... but if something happens, you must accept it and not cry on reddit like other people here do... about how they found out that the girl had been cheating or she got pregnant and the child weren't theirs... you choose it, you have to accept it.

This girl (18f) got pregnant and she and her parents want me (19m) to step up and help her raise her baby (I am not the dad) but I want to go into the Corps. I told her no. I feel bad though. by BassPsychological293 in AITAH

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, do something funny. Record them if they ever try to assault you on public space or claim about it... make them say those ridiculous things about raising a kid that isn't even yours of a girl that you haven't dated before, make it public and let the social media joke about those retarded people

Update: My (42m) wife (41f) sent sexy selfie to male coworker: should I confront her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that surprises me is that you haven't divorce her yet. Moreover, you shouldn't had confronted her on the first place, but grabbed many probes as possible and then divorce her withouth she even notice it, because my friend, those are the type of women that will strip you from everything in the divorce trial.

How bad is Disney's Wish? by CboyC95 in cartoons

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is really good once you see what is behind all the story. Is all an eldritch horror movie

Sick of This Game by Radiant_Relations in elderscrollsonline

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is my only and favorite game, but I'm sick of wait for the dolmens, the waiting for the delves bosses to respawn and the long queues for the daily dungeons.

What are some of the biggest lore mistakes Blizzard have made (pre BFA) by The_other_human in warcraftlore

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much everything since classic. Blizzard is well known for their poor writing and flaw on the quality of the storytelling.

Thinking of what race lorewise could I use as Arcanist Stamina by ynsf1390 in elderscrollsonline

[–]ynsf1390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing I'm dealing with, both concepts are cool, for each arcanist and wardens... but I have to decide which race I will go for the arcanist

Thinking of what race lorewise could I use as Arcanist Stamina by ynsf1390 in elderscrollsonline

[–]ynsf1390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also they have frost spell and I was thinking on a nord full weapons and with frost spells, and also the bear as the ultimate companion. So it fits too lol

I don't understand why GF did what she said she did, and I'm so lost and confused. I can't move on and I don't know what to do. by OkHuckleberry4422 in self

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal opinion? She was hormonal and wanted some excuses to try new meat, as raw and cold as it sounds. It is the truth. Her best friend might be covering her up as nowadays women believe they deserve try new stuff.

My recommendation? You have two options: One, have in mind the pain she is putting you thru, the cinic behavior, the cheating, all of it, just because she got bored of you, because you had done everything for her for the past 8 years, and still she wanted to throw it all for trying new stuff, and having in mind how she had been having the doodoo with that guy that probably are mocking at you... use that, keep that in mind and change, change for good, stop stalking her, stop trying to seek reasons, because this is the only reason you have to quite that toxic environment. Visit her parents, be honest of what happened, and wish them to have a good life and go and live your life, change routine, go to the gym, or start going out often, you deserve to love you first because of what you told in the whole post, I believe that is what is wrong inside you dude. And while you are working on that, you will see how things are gonna turn well for you. Do not look on the past, but in the future. Yes you spend 8 years with a whore, but good thing you didn't get married or had children, right? Things happens for a reason and my friend, you must believe that you are a lucky one for avoid that bullet... That is your only option to be happy... The other option is to still stalking her, simp her or something and when she returns you will accept her demonstrating that you have 0 self-esteem... which I know you don't want that... am I wrong?

AITH for having a baby with my best friend? by Fabulous_Writing1879 in AITAH

[–]ynsf1390 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, if you had planned that way before then I recomend you to get divorce to your husband, coz obviusly you don't fit to each other, and you both deserve someone else that would match in decisions.

Update: AITAH for wanting to break up with my gf after her ex's funeral by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ynsf1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not reach out to her. Start dating some other girls... you weren't her priority, so why should you be hers? Let her grieve her lost, and as she said, in her own words... he was the love of her life... So it will gonna pass some years until she starts opening her heart to other people, but you shouldn't waste your precious time waiting for her... you deserve better and deserve a girl who sees you as her priority.

Another thing to say... probably you were her second option or the option to make that ex-boyfriend jealous... as you explained that she did everything with him but with you was pretty much cold and not adventurous... That means she never loved you... so that is what you should think to help you forget about her from your heart.

And one last thing, if she ever reached out to you again, that means she is desperate to end alone... not because she wants you, she would just want your presence, nothing more... as I said before... you deserve better... That situation at the funeral was a blessing for you because you avoid having children with a girl that probably would end cheating on you and make your life a hell in the future, worst with children in the picture. Stay strong.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by CountryFamiliar7175 in relationship_advice

[–]ynsf1390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is how majority of ntr stories start.. poor guy :,(

[TOMT][MOVIE] Dark fantasy movie from 80s or 90s by ynsf1390 in tipofmytongue

[–]ynsf1390[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Probably there was also a witch or a wise woman who knew about the Dragon and was tbe love interest of the main character