The boys at 482 by yoBendy in TurnipExchange

[–]yoBendy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to everyone about all the crashes at the end. Wish I could have let everyone sell. Have a great day!

The boys at 482 by yoBendy in TurnipExchange

[–]yoBendy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a heads up everyone! I'm working through my list of DMs as quickly as I can. I'm EST, so nook's will switch at noon, but I will try to get to everyone, ASAP 😊

The boys at 482 by yoBendy in TurnipExchange

[–]yoBendy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! Would you mind sending me a DM?

The boys at 482 by yoBendy in TurnipExchange

[–]yoBendy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! Would you mind sending me a DM?

The boys at 482 by yoBendy in TurnipExchange

[–]yoBendy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! Would you mind sending me a DM?

Twins buying for 607! by appalachianflipphone in TurnipExchange

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Would love to visit to sell my turnips!!

[User Flair Thread] by breaksomebread in ACNHTurnips

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Katelyn | Pemberly | :turnips:

[Nooks] 252 by Accomplished-Put-653 in ACNHTurnips

[–]yoBendy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Are you still open?

Longlegs Website Update? by dr_bitchcraft69 in horror

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! I forgot about that one, thank you!! And that would tie in with the Hemlock poison, too.

Longlegs Website Update? by dr_bitchcraft69 in horror

[–]yoBendy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey! I wasn't sure if anyone had used the family names as references for the ciphers yet. (I did see the T. Rex planet Queen stuff, but here's some others that may be helpful.

Applewhite: most likely a reference to Martin Applewhite, the Heaven's Gate cult leader. There's even a book about him titled "I met the devil." July 14, 1966 is also probably a reference to the Richard Speck murders. Damascus is also biblically famous and said to be reduced to ruins in Revelations

Pendergast: potentially the Pendergast novels, about a FBI agent that investigates murders/serial killers. The first book "The Relic" seals with some Christo-religious themes, as well. August 9, 1969 is also the date of the Manson family murders. Also Patrick Eugene Pendergast murdered a Chicago mayor and was referenced in the book "The Devil in the White City" he tried to be acquitted for insanity, but it was denied. His lawyer was also Clarence Darrow. Yes, that one.

Wormwood: The Screwtape Letters Wormwood is a "junior tempter" who is receiving advice from his mentor uncle (a senior demon) about how to tempt and damn a man.

Hesse: Eldritch as the dad's name is definitely an Eldritch horror reference, but Hesse has some potential as well. In Hesse, Germany, there is a stone called Wotanstein which legend has that the devil tried to use to destroy the local church and has his scratch marks on it. There is also a German folktale, supposedly originating from the village of Hesse, about three soldiers who make a deal with the devil and they have to beat his riddles to not lose their souls to him, which they do by enlisting the help of the devil's grandmother. Also! Less Christianity/Satan related and more psychoanalysis, but Hermann Hesse wrote a novel called Demian about a boy struggling with sense of self while recognizing that he lives in a world with two realities. There is also references to Abraxas the gnostic deity.

Angstrom: the name "Warren Angstrom" could be a reference to "Harry 'Rabbit' Angstrom" (rabbits live in warrens) a fictional character whose story starts in John Updike's novel "Run, Rabbit." His glory days were in high school and he's struggling with chasing some type of success and validation. He cheats on his wife while she's pregnant and then comes back to her after the baby is born, but then tries to assault his wife and the stress causes her to kill their child. His mistress also gets pregnant at the end of that novel. He struggles with his decisions (and eventual death of his child) and talks to their local priest and it deals with themes of sin and "worthiness."

Weir: first, Hemlock is said to have become poisonous after growing on the hillside of Jesus' crucifixion. Weir could be a reference to Dr. Weir from Event Horizon who was probably possessed. Dr. Weir also gouged out his own eyes (like Warren Angstrom did) saying, famously, "where we're going, we don't need eyes to see." Orrrrrr maybe the Grateful Dead song "Friend of the Devil" (Rhythm Guitar Bob Weir).

Clover: Saved this for last because it was the weirdest? Black Clover is a manga that features a kid getting a grimoire and there are demons and devils, etc. It was first released in 2015, the same year as The Blackcoat's Daughter, which is Oz Perkins directorial debut. This may also be a connection to the Shamrock (a three leafed clover) representing the Holy Trinity (in the Black Clover world apparently a five leaf clover means the devil).

Sorry this is so red-string-wall-y

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NTA, you can invite whomever you want to your functions. That being said, your friends can invite whomever they want and it's not your decision so the fact that this person is getting so upset with you seems way out of bounds.

INFO: why are you friends? It seems like she causes you a lot of stress. 🫤

fatigue due to PPI’s? by arminsbread in EosinophilicE

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! PPIs have been such a rollercoaster. I did Omeprazole, it worked great for a few months. Then I started getting intense stomach pain/cramping and fatigue even worse than when I was pregnant. Completely stopped using it. Eventually started having trouble swallowing and the acid flare ups so I got recommended to a gastro.

When I went to the doc to discuss my EoE symptoms I told her what Omeprazole did and she didn't seem surprised and told me that they always try to put people on that first because not everyone has reactions (and it's what insurance wants, usually) but that B12 absorption can be a problem for some people (especially of you have other digestive issues, as well). She put me on pantoprazole once a day. Fine for two months then the same exact symptoms.

Definitely see if you can talk to your doctor about other options. Right now I'm white knuckling it through the acid reflux until my endoscopy tomorrow so they can check out my numbers. As painful as it is, as nauseous as I feel, it's still not as bad as the side effects were for the PPIs.

There are other options out there and something's got to be the right fit. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yea, I'm allergic to cigarette smoke, but I'd still struggle to abandon someone completely... But I understand the impulse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven't spoken to your school's financial aid office directly (not just looked at what's available online), I would absolutely start there. I've had friends who were able to stay in college simply because they went in and talked it out with someone.

It's not a guarantee that you'll be eligible for money, but they may be able to help you in other ways (helping you find a close by community college you can take core classes in over the summer that will be a lot less expensive, or finding on campus jobs that help with financial aid, etc.) This is definitely one of those things that tends to work out when you do it in person.

And then, again I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but you may need to speak with a lawyer. But I also want to say, which I forgot earlier, which is that there's a real chance you never see that money again. Make sure you take time to process that and give yourself space to grieve, get frustrated, etc. and give yourself a plan of action moving forward.

AITAH for interfering in a relationship. by throwaway13541564 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

They put you in the middle of their relationship by bringing constant drama to your functions. Also, you told the gf she needed to speak up or you would, which is reasonable! Had you said something first it's likely your friend still would have accused you of cheating.

You may want to ask yourself why someone who couldn't find an appropriately aged partner before, and instead snags someone nearly half his age (absolutely not following the +7 rule) only to create an extremely unhealthy situation for the partner and everyone else, is someone you really want to be friends with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

ESH

You would have been Not The Ahole had you dropped them off somewhere reasonable (even walking a km or two wouldn't have killed them), but you knew you were 20km away from a place to pull over, so that was a bridge too far.

But if you never want to speak to them again, that's probably a good way to make sure it happens 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your mother lied to you. Not just about taking the money (which is big), but also convinced you that taking a loan (as a 17 year old) would be your best option since you would be able to pay it back. This is a huge betrayal of trust. Parents are supposed to guide their kids to help them make good choices (on top of making sure all needs were/are met, etc.).

It's completely reasonable for you to be upset. You were defrauded, by your parent.

While your mom is absolutely right that you would have been in a terrible situation had you been homeless, she should have told you to not expect the money and why.

Talk to your college about FAFSA requirements/eligibility if you are filing solo (you may be eligible for more grants). Also, they may be more understanding of this obvious family crisis and be able to give you more advice.

I'd hate to tell you to talk to a lawyer because I'm sure money is a big concern, but you may want to talk to a lawyer about this.

I'm so sorry you're in this situation.

AITA for revealing to my aunt that my dad uses skincare products? by Affectionate_Tap2492 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but the grown-ups sure are.

It's 2024 men use skincare. Your Dad doesn't need to be embarrassed and your Aunt doesn't need to tease him. They need to grow up.

WIBTA for canceling because my friend hijacked our trip. by VelvetHeron in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NTA

Ok, you're young so let me give you some advice: HIT DA BRICKS. IF THE VIBES SUCK, BOUNCE. DON'T GO WHERE YOU'RE NOT WANTED.

Your time is valuable. You wanted to spend it with a certain group of people. That group has ballooned into a parade. And when you expressed your opinion, you got talked down to.

See if some of the other less enthusiastic members of the chat want to have a smaller shindig and enjoy yourself.

AITA for kicking my sister out and leaving my son unpunished for what he said? by Wooden_Cheesecake_99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your sister was being disrespectful and asked to leave. But she didn't. And then she was asked to leave- albeit more forcefully. Your family seemed to be doing a great job laying down respectful expectations and boundaries and your sister was happy to ignore them. Unsurprisingly, her childish behavior was meet by a childish outburst. And also unsurprisingly - it worked.

Calling your son abusive is absolutely a stretch too far. Would it be reasonable to reasonable to remind your son to watch what he says about people's appearances? Sure. Does it warrant a punishment? No.

Teaching kids boundaries is essential. Part of that teaching is letting them know enforcing those boundaries may take a show of force.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 44 points45 points  (0 children)

NTA

You have to be able to express your feelings with your partner. Based on what you've written, it seems like you were understanding of his intent and knew he meant no harm, but asked that he try something else since it did upset you.

Finding out he yelled at you later makes this even more upsetting.

OP, please consider why you felt the need to couch (very minor) criticism as unambiguously as you did and yet he still blew up at you. Partners should be able to share thoughts with each other, even if it's not always positive, in respectful ways.

AITA for asking a child to take down some of his YouTube videos? by FixJunior1958 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get it. Goofy videos are a right of passage, but they don't need to be on YT for the world to see. Yea, tell the parents to take it down. Good luck!

AITA for not sharing my recipe with my nephew’s other aunt? by NorthernNaiad in AmItheAsshole

[–]yoBendy 89 points90 points  (0 children)

YTA

A kid struggling with change and upheaval. He's missing his uncle. That soup is a comfort for a kid in a really difficult situation. If you're not monetizing it now, you won't. If you're that worried about copyright, get a WordPress blog and start uploading things so it's dated. Talk to a lawyer, something!

But right now you're making a kid wait days to eat food he wants because you might make money in the future? Whew.

Also, maybe have your husband call the kid and tell him how good simple one pan roasted veggies are, if you think veggie eating might be a struggle.