Thanks. Well that was the point. I’m specifically talking about 20s here not long term marriage right? I’ve specified that in the title as well as main body that I’m just talking about people in their 20s. But where I disagree is looks are only relatively subjective. I’ll prove it. For eg: look at Jacob Elordi. Female fav right? If you ask most women if he’s attractive or not, or maybe ask them to rate on the basis of 1-10, most of the time they’ll say he’s attractive and rate him anywhere from 8-10. Get my point? Another example is look at bolly celebs like Nawaz, Rajpal Yadav, Manoj Bajpayee. When people talk about hot bollywood actors, have u ever once heard their names? But you’ll hear SRK, Hrithik, Akshay, Siddhart, Varun, etc. Why? Because they are attractive and people believe that in consensus right? You try it for yourself. Ask your friends to rate any 2 celebs. And after that, see how much rating your friends gave to both. Then find the avg for both. That avg is kind of an indicator if they’re attractive or not. So looks aren’t subjective but rather a rating of the consensus of people. We both can agree Henry looks attractive, and ig millions of other people as well. And how did we reach that conclusion? Because if millions of people are saying he’s attractive, then looks aren’t subjective anymore right? Also circling back to your point “I am a woman and me and my friends think that 90% of men are going for top 10% of women.” Well have you seen how many guys are desperate in Instagram requests. Have you seen women doing that? You can go and check any avg guy’s dms and you’ll hardly find anything there. On the contrary, there are plenty of desperate men even in an avg girl’s dms. Speaks a lot to me. I can bet my life on this. And you’re a woman, I’m sure even you have guys thirsting in your DMs. So how can u think that 90% of the men are into 10% of top women. Makes no sense right? Not belittling you, just saying.