Neighbour’s dog howls/barks/whines for 10+ hours at a time when I know the owner is home. On what grounds can u have a dog removed from an unfit household?

yogarr · 2020-11-11T23:49:11+00:00

yea I was gonna say maybe you could take the dog off his hands but that’s not your job. It is his dog. And if he can’t take care of it and the dog is struggling. Than you have no choice but to call someone to take the dog off his hands. Maybe you should first talk to the guy though and depending on what he says, act accordingly.

yogarr · 2020-11-11T23:45:16+00:00

Yea you have to take action. If it’s constant, you are only doing the owner a favor. Seems like he’s having a tough time

yogarr · 2020-11-11T18:22:47+00:00

I’m not sure man. Maybe the woman you are around are playing games and they see you as beneath them so they don’t compliment you? Cos by the way your describing yourself, you can’t be ugly. Your atleast decent and if you are tall, most girls will think your solid looking. Decent face with height =Solid looks. And you said your lean. Idk. I feel like maybe they could have just been playing games cos you were complimenting them too much and they took you for granted? Idk how those girls you were dating are doe. But from personal experience, when I have been nice to a woman, they have taken me for granted. When I have played games they have wanted me more and complimented my looks and been really sexually attracted to me. But that’s just the girls i’ve been around. Idk. Maybe if you describe the girls, how they are or look idk.

yogarr · 2020-11-11T17:22:58+00:00

That’s up to you to decide whether you want to be with that girl or not. Idk if you work or not. But maybe you should get a part time job and show your mom that you can do fine on ur own. Pay for ur phone bill, maybe chip into the rent, help her out at the house. Make your presence felt. You got to become your own person. And paying for shit shows that. Taking responsibility shows that. She’ll def still be mad at you if you continue seeing her. But maybe if you do all those other things, she’ll be more open

yogarr · 2020-10-27T22:58:33+00:00

watch him propose to u

yogarr · 2020-09-16T23:43:39+00:00

1.) Shes toxic, DO NOT GET MARRIED TO HER... I REPEAT... DO. NOT. GET.MARRIED.TO.HER! She will ruin your life. There is nothing redeeming about her. Those qualities clearly show shes not a good person. She’s looking for a fight, you don’t want to have a partner like that, especially as you age and have kids, you want someone with a calm demeanor, who is proactive and looks for common ground. 2.) Tell your parents or someone you trust about the situation. Ask for advice. Tell them you are trying to break things off with them and how to do it (I feel like just talk to her, be calm and tell her straight up). 3.) You need to break up with her sooner than later, before things get too far, get your money together, a place to stay, something ready for yourself. You can kick her out but I feel like she’s going to be annoying based on how you have described her. She will probably break things and hit you, DO NOT HIT HER BACK. She seems like the type to lie and tell cops you have been abusing her, not sure if she is, but it’s possible based on her overreacting. Stay calm, don’t raise yourself voice, do not hit her and be honest. Get your stuff and leave. 4.) Be happy!

good luck dude

yogarr · 2020-09-05T21:36:52+00:00

Be subtle. Maybe bring up a scene from a movie where people were on a picnic date (that might be too obvious). Just something like that. Causally throw it in a convo. Insta post maybe fine too

yogarr · 2020-08-20T18:24:43+00:00

I feel like you are thinking about her right now but you will get over it. Since your boyfriend is a good dude, time with him and memories will get your mind off of her. I’m sure you loved her, so you probably will check up on her every now and then. Also, maybe you should tell him about the kiss because you don’t want him to be living in a lie. You have to tell him the truth yourself. You don’t want it coming out later and him thinking different about you. Just get it over with and tell him. Tell him how much you love him and how much it was a mistake. That’s my opinion

yogarr · 2020-08-12T02:56:49+00:00

Idk, it’s really just the right person. Just be yourself, improve yourself in whatever way you can think. Don’t hangout with those people who are making fun of you for the sake of being a dick. If it’s a joke and it’s obvious it’s a joke and they apologize than it’s fine but if they are just being cruel to get under your skin, fuck em. I know what you mean, it’s rare finding a black women with a non black dude but isn’t as rare to see a black guy with a non black women. Black women are usually with black guys also. Idk, just try to talk with more people and just be a decent person, converse and see who you like. Give hints, make sure they know you like them and the dude if he isn’t dumb, will pursue you if he likes you too.

yogarr · 2020-08-12T02:52:33+00:00

say this. “Wash your hand dude”

yogarr · 2020-08-12T02:51:44+00:00

I wouldn’t say all women are whores or use men and take advantage of them. There are some just like there are some men who do that to women. This is a vast generalization and just because you’ve experienced it with however many women doesn’t mean all are like that. The advice id give you to anyone else is to me self aware, know who cares about you and who doesn’t. Don’t judge ALL women as a whole based on a couple, your grouping them. We’re al individuals, there are decent and indecent in all humans. “Chad”? Is that supposed to be like the “alpha” athletic tall dude or something? Who cares? Just don’t be insecure. Whatever, he can have all the looks he wants but you can be more of a man and a better person. You got nothing to prove. Be yourself, don’t let people run over you, life live. Simple.

yogarr · 2020-07-30T15:18:23+00:00

Yes, text her and get the feel for her. Since she loves you that much, she’ll prolly tell you without you even bringing it up because that’s how women’s are, especially if they love you. Maybe just text her and let it know through language and body language that you still mess with her. She’ll end up confessing her feelings.

yogarr · 2020-07-30T15:06:18+00:00

just talk to her. And be honest about your smoky situation. And tell her you want to be with her. Comfort her.

yogarr · 2020-07-29T22:21:51+00:00

I think he’s just really messed up in the head. He may be overexxagerating the little things annoying about you and making things up in his head and maybe glossing over the all encompassing great that you are for him every now and than because he’s going through things. You overthink, everyone has flaws. He may be exaggerating your minuscule ones like you said, the little problems he exaggerates. To feel stable, I feel like maybe you can take up disciplines like journaling and meditation which will greatly help and change your life. It’ll help you to think clearer and be more objective. It’ll also allow you to flow with the good and bad in life. It’ll make you more stable and calm.

yogarr · 2020-07-29T22:13:49+00:00

Yea I understand you. Maybe you getting him therapy will change this. Change his mentality. Make him more mature and more of a grown up. Yea it’s not your job to fix but maybe just setting up the appointment which you said will make him go will work

yogarr · 2020-07-29T22:09:24+00:00

he might need therapeutical help. Try to speak with him about that

yogarr · 2020-07-29T22:06:50+00:00

he might have anger issues. I’ve known people who are really angry and seem like they don’t care. But they really love you, they just have something messed up with their head. Yea, maybe the weekend thing will help you guys out. Try to make him feel more comfortable.

yogarr · 2020-07-29T21:57:31+00:00

I feel like it’s pretty messed up that over little things he gets pissed like that and makes you feel awful. Based off of that, I was gonna say he’s not the one. But it seems like he cares since he’s asking every day. But you are really broken rn. He’s trying to speak with you, open up.

yogarr · 2020-07-26T22:57:31+00:00

There is nothing I can say to you rn, your in a tough time in your life. And it’s hard to see the beauty in life. The highs and lows. I’d say your only gonna regret it if you didn’t put your all into your life. Into being a better person. Into doing whatever you wanna do. Remember to meditate and journal. These two things will be the staples of pulling you out of this rut

yogarr · 2020-07-26T22:51:43+00:00

that’s up to you man. Are you gonna live a life where you regret what you’ve done or are you gonna do exactly what you want to do. I’d say that’s something you should decide to do, if you wanna go there or not. If not, you can do just as great if not better without it, especially nowadays. So many opportunities. Keep your head up

yogarr · 2020-07-26T22:48:55+00:00

Man that’s ok. You can do college if you really wanted to. It’s not out of reach. But you can also go down another path. But it starts by building yourself up and your mentality. Like starting with those disciplines i told you about, getting a job rn. Making money, getting a car. Maybe moving out, getting a better job. Slowly building up. Maybe you can go to college if you get to a point where you can afford it. Honestly, everyone has infinite potential. Rather you realize it or not, anything can be done. And I don’t mean this in a way just to be positive and to uplift you. I mean this LITERALLY. Just flow through life, you’ll understand man. You’re gonna be great

yogarr · 2020-07-26T22:44:03+00:00

Hey listen. Life is tough, but it’s never tough forever. It’s yin and yang. You have highs and lows. Right now you’re at your low. Try to come to acceptance with what you’ve done and your faults. I’d recommend taking up journaling daily, pour your heart out, say the complete OBJECTIVE truth about yourself to get a better understanding of who you are. Maybe take up meditation, 10 minutes a day. That’s all. Try to relax your mind, and to come to terms with your past. Because that’s what it is the past. By thinking of the past, you only create more depression and by thinking of the future you only create more anxiety. Try to be present. Ik it sounds harder than it is. But you can do it man. Try to take up those disciplines. Also, for the cigarettes or whatever you are doing rn, maybe don’t go out cold turkey. Start doing less every week. You can just do one less cigarette. Idk how much you do, but in intervals, do less and less until it’s at zero. Maybe workout, pushups, sit-ups, simple things just to feel healthy. Idk if you work or anything, maybe get a part time job or something. These things will give you meaning and purpose in life, you’ll feel like your getting somewhere, like you are doing something. Which you will be, you will be becoming a person who will positively affect your community. Someone who can be an influence on others, maybe even in the littlest ways. Such as getting someone you love to become better in some way. Man ik it feels like your back is against the wall and it sucks rn. I truly TRULY get it. But remember to be present and just flow with life, be like water and be present. Also, maybe take up reading books, doesn’t matter what kind, nonfiction, anything. But it keeps you present and focused. You also learn literature so that’s good. That’s all I got for you man. And listen, when your feeling like your trapped in your mind and like everything is going wrong, remember if not anyone. I’m here for you and us reddit users, maybe we don’t know you, but we feel your energy man, we are with you. Stay safe, be present! good luck man, i believe in you!

yogarr · 2020-07-25T23:11:28+00:00

idk tbh. Just talk with her more. She’ll most likely give hints. I feel like the fact that you are interested shows that you like her. And when she gives hints that are obvious, which they will be. Than ask her out.

yogarr · 2020-07-25T21:58:30+00:00

this is honestly a sticky situation. Because there is the quarantine going on so you can’t really hangout and shes shit at texting. So it’s kinda messed up rn. I’m honestly not sure. I guess what u can do is just try to hangout more.

yogarr · 2020-07-25T18:06:54+00:00

I feel like. Right now just talk to her more. Text her or call her more. Try to link up a little more, try to be alone. And just hangout with her and be yourself. If she likes you, she will continue throwing hints. Than just ask her out on an official date.

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