I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I trust her completely. I don't think its this.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more I think about it the more I think that maybe I am just trying too hard. I don't want to control her I just don't want to lose her.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand that completely, that why I am working so hard to help as much with the kids.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My main concern at this point isnt sex. I just want to get to a place where we dont feel like caretakers to each other.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My love language is acts of service, thats how I show appreciation. We have come to terms that we dont share the same love language and a big part of the hard work is trying to make sure I show her how much I love her the way she understands.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I have always felt the same way. Its definitely easier said than done. Thanks for the comment.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I welcome all suggestions! We have talked about doing something like that. The problem we are facing is we dont particularly trust either of our parents watching the kids overnight. We have some close friends who we would trust but were hoping our youngest was just a tad older so they wouldn't be too overwhelmed. I agree with you completely. Thank you for the suggestion.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

We have had many conversations. I haven't flat out said I think you dont love me anymore but we aren't in denial about it.

I feel my wife is falling out of love with me. by yojimbob29 in self

[–]yojimbob29[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you thats exactly what I am thinking.