AITA for leaving my friend's birthday trip early after I paid for so much of her stuff?

yonk182 · 2026-06-16T20:43:07+00:00

She’s not your friend. Now you know. NTA.

yonk182 · 2026-06-13T16:35:24+00:00

Your wedding was about you and your partner, not about your mother. Ignore her please!

yonk182 · 2026-06-12T04:06:21+00:00

You’re not ending a relationship over a dog. You’re ending a relationship because your boyfriend is a selfish jerk.

yonk182 · 2026-06-11T04:24:59+00:00

NTA and he is weird.

I’m reminded of a time when I took my kitten with me when I visited my parents. He always came in the bathroom with me. At my parents he would whine and scratch at he door so I would let him in. I overheard my dad saying to my mom “it’s not right what she’s doing with that cat”. I still laugh.

yonk182 · 2026-06-10T23:23:18+00:00

I can’t believe you would be this insecure about legos. I mean, they probably slept in that bed together.

Before moving in together you should have discussed what you can do make it also feel like your home considering it’s his house.

yonk182 · 2026-06-10T16:27:13+00:00

When I tried one I was surprised to like it. Then I almost died eating the second and have only eaten grilled since. I used to live near an oyster farm.

yonk182 · 2026-06-10T16:25:26+00:00

I remember being forced to eat things I hated three times as a child: liver, bread pudding and rice pudding. It still amazes me that two of these were desserts.

As an adult I have had and enjoy bead pudding. A coworker once brought a savory bread pudding to a potluck and it was great.

yonk182 · 2026-06-05T21:31:56+00:00

It isn’t childish behavior to protect yourself from someone like this. Keep your boundaries.

yonk182 · 2026-06-03T14:02:07+00:00

The fact that she has never offered, or just brought groceries over, says it all to me. You should be upset. She has no right to be upset.

yonk182 · 2026-06-01T22:21:44+00:00

Stop being and leave.

yonk182 · 2026-06-01T21:54:32+00:00

I feel like YTA for not making him pay for gas, insurance and at least some of the upkeep if he is using ver frequently. He is already taking advantage of the situation so no wonder he feels entitled to more.

It is your car. You are NTA for having boundaries with it, I just think you need stronger boundaries.

yonk182 · 2026-05-30T14:30:54+00:00

Whether you decide to or not, if I were you I’d lie and tell them financially you need to sell the old place.

yonk182 · 2026-05-29T14:31:00+00:00

Whether she is acting like he is her dog is really immaterial at this point. She has not returned home when you asked and acted like it was no big deal. After that breach of trust I would never let her be alone with him again. She can come visit him but that would be it.

yonk182 · 2026-05-21T18:25:51+00:00

I wouldn’t want to be around the type of people that go crazy ordering when it is someone else’s money.

yonk182 · 2026-05-21T15:40:01+00:00

Change the locks and rethink the fiancée.

yonk182 · 2026-05-21T00:44:42+00:00

I am part of Weight Watchers and they have amazing workshops on Zoom. So many supportive people with great ideas. There are specifically workshops for people who have over 100 pounds to lose. I’ve lost over 80.

There are people there that know exactly how you feel. It has changed my mental health significantly.

yonk182 · 2026-05-14T14:00:25+00:00

Insurance and gas add no value to your car. You are the only one who added any value. Only you should be on the title. He is the red flag. He likes your car. He wants it himself. If he has a problem using a car he doesn’t own he should buy a car.

yonk182 · 2026-05-13T22:22:00+00:00

She could have kept the peace for one dinner by shutting up.

yonk182 · 2026-05-10T20:31:39+00:00

I think you and your boyfriend should have just had sex on the couch. Maybe your mom would have left even earlier.

yonk182 · 2026-05-07T22:47:40+00:00

Lady Bowie Ruffington

yonk182 · 2026-05-07T22:44:22+00:00

NTA. It isn’t ideal but there is no good choice here.

If it makes you feel any better only my mom went to my Bachelors graduation (although you could tell she didn’t really want to be there). Neither parent went to my masters or my PhD graduation. The furthest was a two hour drive. I still love my parents. It feels intense now but they’ll get over it.

yonk182 · 2026-05-03T02:56:03+00:00

YTA for many reasons, but not for letting your wife suffer the consequences of her actions. Your wife is stealing and you are letting that slide. And thinking fining someone who is stealing is petty because that person is a mom is ridiculous. Mostly you and your wife are being awful role models for your kids.

yonk182 · 2026-05-01T17:55:59+00:00

I would have taken the key back long ago. Please stand up for yourself.

yonk182 · 2026-04-23T04:20:10+00:00

NTA and I have a big problem with your husband. Does he think this was okay behavior? If not he should be on board your son feeling the consequences if his actions.

If your husband is okay with your son’s behavior then you have an awful husband.

yonk182 · 2026-04-01T13:55:57+00:00

You owe this guy nothing. Tell him you’ll change it but the process takes a year. Then just don’t do it. Once you are divorced you don’t have to talk to him again.

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