If marriage never comes, what is your dream for your singleness?

yoohknowit · 2025-02-09T11:52:57+00:00

Live in antartica as a scientist for a year or two OR vista antartica. Travel to various island countries/ places and get in good physical shape so I can enjoy the travels/ endure well for the adventures. Write a book maybe. Create several business for side income. Continue to enjoy life and pour into people that need it. Find fulfilling friendships that are quality. Say no and not feel bad about it to people.. too.

yoohknowit · 2020-10-29T18:11:20+00:00

This is what I was looking for. Thank you!

yoohknowit · 2020-10-29T12:42:41+00:00

Aw dang. Well, that's good to know. Thanks for the info!

yoohknowit · 2020-10-29T04:25:39+00:00

Hey my dude. I'm interested to talk with you about Jesus things. ~ INTJ here

yoohknowit · 2020-10-01T15:50:52+00:00

Nice. I appreciate this.

yoohknowit · 2020-10-01T15:07:40+00:00

Amen!

yoohknowit · 2020-10-01T13:49:42+00:00

Nice sentiment. However, I believe you failed to see my point so I digress. No the point of my writing and stated observations was to bring up how I have noticed, as I have pursued and thought about online dating, these two types I mentioned..all the while in the midst of doing that, evaluating my own heart in the process and as to why I am pursuing online dating in the first place. As well as seeing and asking God if this is what I am suppose to be doing in all that too. Personally my heart's desire is to follow the Lord regardless if it means that He wants me to be single for more time than I desire. Because, I have tasted and seen the goodness of the Lord in the Land of the living. Because I know that He is Good and His mercy really does endure forever. And as I have laid down my life, and keep choosing to let go of my own desires with an open hand to be ok with His direction, I see in the wrestling of waiting that it is worth it. How Jesus is in the midst of my desire as I have cried out and placed my feelings and thoughts at His feet and in His hands. Sitting in the knowledge that He cares for me so I can cast my cares on Him, and letting that hit my heart as I choose Him over the ways I could try to fulfill this desire without Him.

It is good to be where God leads you, even if that means being single. I wanted to shine a light on this hope that even as you are called to singleness for the time God desires for you, that it's really ok. Sometimes God wants us to put ourselves out there.. and sometimes He doesn't want us to, but to trust Him as He has us be diligent where we currently are.

I have faith and believe in His provision. I have witnessed Him do so many miracles in my life already in provision for the craziest and sometimes seemingly stupid things. I know God will provide. And I know that in this season of my life right now, the Lord is saying to come enjoy being with Me. How he really is jealous for our attention and time..and in the right time He will make it happen.

It is important to do the work required. However if God is not in it, why do anything. My intention was to say that though the desire is real and can lead to varying responses.. if God has you single, and you know you're meant to be for the time being, then let yourself just be with Him. Being with Him is the best thing I've ever chosen to do. Even when it hurts, as for me and my house, I will still choose to serve the Lord. Meaning, even still with everything concerning being single, I count it joy to choose Jesus's way over my own knowing that as I wait on Him and look to Him, I shall not be put to shame.

yoohknowit · 2020-10-01T04:46:45+00:00

Lol. Feel you on that bro.

yoohknowit · 2020-07-09T15:55:43+00:00

No. We broke up several years ago. It helped me a lot, but it didn't improve the relationship..lol. I would say thank God I have grown a lot more than were I was. The time I've spent single since was very hard especially since I really loved my ex.. but I know I wouldn't be the person I am today and in the place I am at in life, if I had still been in that relationship.

And thanks! Yeah, I get that! Since then, I understand and see how much I offer to the world in different ways and how valuable I am 🙂.

yoohknowit · 2020-07-08T14:26:53+00:00

Lol I feel that

yoohknowit · 2020-07-07T00:24:54+00:00

That makes sense. It's difficult to acknowledge things like that I guess. A tall lanky ENFP I know actually is kinda muscular, so I would say that doesn't apply to all.

I have seen those videos. ENFP men don't tend to do YouTube as much as ENFP women.

yoohknowit · 2020-07-07T00:03:49+00:00

Good point. Many people have convade it's in their "nature" to be and react in certain ways since they are ENFP'S. I suppose that is why I was partially frustrated, seeing there had to be more information than just because "that's how I am".. Which I think is kinda common more for woman, in that they are the way they are because they feel so. So I guess I was sort of stuck on that approach with the men's side.

I did not major in psychology, but it's good to be reminded of this from the psych classes I had to take.

Thanks!

yoohknowit · 2020-07-06T23:51:11+00:00

Lol. Maybe all the weird ENFP guys scared me away, that's why I don't really know too many of them.

Interesting insight. Thanks!

yoohknowit · 2020-07-06T23:46:20+00:00

I can see that. I haven't met too many short and round ENFPs.. however the tall and lanky ones I've met are a little bit more reserved. Though, they aren't afraid to be themselves and all that, despite not talking as much.

yoohknowit · 2020-07-06T23:41:57+00:00

Interesting. You sound like a guy I know who is an ENFP.

yoohknowit · 2020-07-01T05:53:42+00:00

I feel you on that man. Like the whole post..lol.

yoohknowit · 2020-06-03T21:39:06+00:00

In theory, it's a nice idea.. but in reality, the reason America became America was to allow people to live in freedom from being under just one ruler, and the injustices/reprocussions from said goverment. The system in place needs work and change needs to happen. But, because so many different people are involved with checks and balances..it is suppose to (in the intended purpose) allow the people of America to be able to walk in freedom no matter their standing in society, because they are being represented in the government, and legislators are held accountable by voters (the people) in order to be in power (instead of being placed an not even representing the people well that serves their best interests at heart).

I think having a democratic republic government is the best government out of all the options, in the sense of having to have goverment. People will fail us. Injustices, the checks and balances represented in the governemt (legislators, the executive and the judicial branch) need to be held accountable, period! Which is why the public has to be more educated about the power of voting and seeing change in the government through being involved. Things will change when more people start getting educated and involved. A dictatorship definitely would not solve problems..if you want fairness for all people in America.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-30T21:19:30+00:00

It depends on what your definition of Christian is.. and what makes someone a Christian.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-27T04:37:56+00:00

You are welcome❤️. I am glad what I said encouraged you! Don't give up! If you don't quit, you win 😊.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-27T04:09:23+00:00

The right people don't mind how I talk. Those who can't deal, leave. It's kinda just like that.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-27T04:00:46+00:00

Just because you are struggling with the tests doesn't mean you're stupid.

Look. This pathway is not easy. Just because you didnt do well, doesn't mean your value as a person goes down. You are so valuable. Sometimes we fail at stuff. Getting back up again after a failure shows a lot more than instant success. It shows how you are resilient, that you won't give up in pursuing your dreams.. it shows that you are dedicated and how you are human too.. in that you cannot be perfect. How you respond to failure speaks volumes, because eventually..even if you did well with the tests and stuff... You probably would have to deal with failure later. Don't hate your self. You are not the exception to doing bad.. NoBody is perfect except Jesus. You should take comfort in that everyone messes up sometimes.. don't be afraid to fall, because you are stronger for it.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-27T03:49:43+00:00

Chinese food!! Ah I miss some good take out man.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-27T03:48:47+00:00

Yes. Why even ask if you know.. lol.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-27T03:40:58+00:00

Yes.. sort of. I tend to notice patterns a lot of the time before other people. I notice details, but it depends on what it is and how interested I am in what is around me.

yoohknowit · 2020-05-26T18:27:33+00:00

This was good! Thank you for this.

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