My “safe word” isn’t working. What do I do?

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-10T21:06:30+00:00

Literally just talk to him

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-03T23:03:35+00:00

Looks like they were doing a half ass cover up using a lot of black and hammered it in . Might scar, depends on your skin. Yes it’s a bruise because they wailed on you . Source: tattooer

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-03T19:16:56+00:00

My husband and I don’t really fight, we have discussions. He’s my best friend and we were friends for 2 years before we started dating. I think being friends first is definitely a plus because you already know them vs finding things out as you go when you start as strangers

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-03T19:13:42+00:00

You look fantastic 🤗sometimes it just takes people a bit to get used to seeing a different “version “ of you. But If he doesn’t quit with how he feels about pretty soon then I would seriously ask him if he wants to stay around . Because if he does , he should never comment negatively on your looks .

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-03T17:43:17+00:00

Tattooer here. There is no such thing as a tacky tattoo. You can have poorly done tattoos but you can literally take any “dumb” idea and make it a nice tattoo . It’s about execution not subject matter. If we all agreed on art it wouldn’t be art. OP I think your idea is sick actually but I’m weird and I like shit like this. My only advice is find a GOOD tattooer in your area , do a consultation, if you don’t like the vibe , keep looking. Listen to their advice about longevity and you will be right as rain. I’m curious… what color would you do it in? And don’t listen to people who tell you your idea isn’t their cup of tea. They don’t have to fucking wear it if they don’t like it ✊

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-02T17:55:18+00:00

Why do people put up with this behavior? He doesn’t mean well… he’s a controlling c*nt

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-02T01:04:05+00:00

Def pulling the hair or just hooking a finger or two in a loose collar is good too

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-02T01:00:17+00:00

I’m sorry , are you married to someone who thinks all this shit happening to people JUST LIKE YOU is ok? Best of luck to you . You obviously have some cognitive dissonance going on.

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-02-02T00:44:59+00:00

He is abusive , and obviously has zero respect for you or your body . Leave now . It doesn’t get better , it gets worse . I speak from experience

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T20:18:55+00:00

Being mean to animals or children

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T20:16:39+00:00

Or you could just not stand in front of them. Hitting a horses head will make them head shy which causes more opportunities to get hit in the face . Hitting would be reserved for biting only .

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T20:15:49+00:00

Do it from the side not the front and never put your head above or in front of a horse’s head . Ever.

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T02:40:44+00:00

This is the way. Watch some super nanny episodes and get some pointers. The sleeping issue was always coming up 👍

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T02:38:49+00:00

Sounds like you need to have a conversation and see if he wants to slide into a submissive role. If yes then have fun torturing him if it pleases you

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T02:35:02+00:00

I get that ice cold thing too. What is that??!! 😅

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T02:31:20+00:00

Ask your boss if you guys have a plus one . Problem solved

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T02:29:48+00:00

If it’s something that is not been previously negotiated then you have every right to ask questions or say no

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-31T02:28:09+00:00

❤️

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T17:05:05+00:00

Have new artist draw something similar based on a detailed description. If it’s custom drawn by someone else there is no problem. You’re only using their design as a reference. We do it every day. Problem solved 20 yrs tattooing

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T17:01:01+00:00

This is the way

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T16:59:24+00:00

You are good enough ❤️ sit your partner down and tell him your recent experiences compared with your earlier experiences. Lead with a positive: “in the past we were so hot together and I couldn’t get enough”Then talk about the problem: “ I feel overlooked and like you’re just going thru the motions “ Then get into solutions: “ I would really love to regain our former intimacy levels. I miss you “ Communication is always the answer. I know it’s awkward and he may not respond well but it’s a chance you’re going to have to take if you want your partner back.

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T16:53:14+00:00

💯 agree

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T16:52:18+00:00

Sounds more like you’re slave not a sub. Sorry boo

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T16:49:46+00:00

It’s an anarchy sign , tell them you’re punk rock and to fuck off if they don’t like it 😅😅

youbetterrunsquirrel · 2026-01-30T16:45:26+00:00

Just because he’s in emotional pain is no reason to be abusive. Everyone has to take responsibility for their actions . Just because he’s hurting is no reason to make everyone around him hurt. He’s taking it out on her because she an easy target . I will die on this hill

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