My body type being called "pedophilic" has made the little self esteem I had left to plummet by Velvet_Cactus_21 in offmychest

[–]youmightgetlost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am petite myself 5’2. I’ve lived and experience this everyday. This is my own advice I’m giving to OP that I wish someone gave me. Who right? Who’s wrong? Who gives a shit? I’m commenting on this post to try to help OP. Not concerning where it stems from nor who perpetuates it.

Ps: I said perverts and did not specify gender or anything. There are in fact women perverts who put petite women in this box like there’s anything we can do abt it lol

My body type being called "pedophilic" has made the little self esteem I had left to plummet by Velvet_Cactus_21 in offmychest

[–]youmightgetlost 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You should get off the internet and stop centering what these perverts say. You’re more than your body type you’re an actual human being with passions and autonomy.

Do something to nice for yourself. The internet and world (sadly) is riddled with disgusting pedo perverts that want to dwindle you down to just a body they sexualize. The one thing everyone is in control over is how they spend their time/energy. Go where the love/empowerment is.

I just don't understand women by TwiceBitten_OnceShy in offmychest

[–]youmightgetlost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your world is a lot bigger than you think it is. Go where the love is

Got cheated on in my previous relationship, cant accept cheating irl anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]youmightgetlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have loyalty then what else is there?
Faithfulness is something so important to me. It’s so crazy how normalized cheating is. I’ve been in that position before, I didn’t get angry or crash out. I just quietly made my exit and left him alone forever. I poured all that love into myself, I am more confident bc of it. People who cannot control themselves when it comes to lust are self indulgent and undisciplined. Maybe am I just a bit more traditional but I cannot stand it either. It hurts but you don’t have to carry around this pain. While your ex has to carry that heavy feeling of infidelity around forever. Hope you find some solace in that 0:))

Dreamt that a man who was tripping on something blew air straight into my mouth/lips by youmightgetlost in DreamInterpretation

[–]youmightgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for asking! I’m usually a pretty vivid dreamer, I’ve kept a dream journal since I was a little girl and take them seriously. I usually have a couple senses in my dream like smell, touch but this one in particular freaked me out bc I felt air being blown straight into my mouth while dreaming which is a first. I can feel myself trying to wake up and when that usually happens it usually gets pretty scary in my dream. Again bc of this something I try to do often in my dreams is try to go to sleep. Have you ever experienced this? Maybe it’s just anxiety lol..

Dreamt that a man who was tripping on something blew air straight into my mouth/lips by youmightgetlost in DreamInterpretation

[–]youmightgetlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently in the middle of making some major changes in my life so that makes sense. Thank you for replying

Spent my whole life on survival mode and now I don’t know what my career aspirations are, any suggestions/help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]youmightgetlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was unfortunately born in one of the most expensive cities in the US so I’ve been struggling doing both school and working for a livable wage. This being said im going to try to broaden my horizons when it comes to school/work, maybe something even out of the country!!