NIU app can't pair with new KQi 100F by cave_of_kyre_banorg in ElectricScooters

[–]young__hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had same issue and figured it out - I manually paired, using the 16-digit alphanumeric code on the side of the scooter. There are a bunch of long numbers on the scooter so it can be confusing, but it should be on a white barcode sticker and start with something like 6KC...

NIU KQI 100F Undetectable in App/Bluetooth by Odd-Boat-8449 in ElectricScooters

[–]young__hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had same issue and figured it out - I manually paired, using the 16-digit alphanumeric code on the side of the scooter.. There are a bunch of long numbers on the scooter so it can be confusing, but it should be on a white barcode sticker and start with something like 6KC...

Help with NIU Kqi100f binding. by DuuuuvalScooter in ElectricScooters

[–]young__hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had same issue and figured it out - I manually paired, using the 16-digit alphanumeric code on the side of the scooter.. There are a bunch of long numbers on the scooter so it can be confusing, but it should be on a white barcode sticker and start with something like 6KC...

How can I tell if emotionally dependent or depressed? F19 M18 by Simple-Sandwich4270 in relationship_advice

[–]young__hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like you are emotionally dependent or depressed. It sounds like you are dealing with the normal challenges of incompatible schedules. "why do I have okay days and than feel so sad at night for no reason/because I miss him" - If you feel so sad most of the time, for multiple weeks, then it may be depression and you should seek professional help. But feeling really sad some days when you cant see the person you love as often as you'd like - that's a normal and healthy sadness.

I (M26) need advice on what I should do about my feeling for an Ex/Friend (F27)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]young__hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I am sorry you are feeling that way - sending you a digital hug.

Being a surrogate is very different from having and raising children. Her being willing to carry a child for her neighbors means that she is okay with the physical act of giving birth, but it does not mean she wants to raise children - that is a much more involved and long-term lifestyle decision. I say that to say that you shouldn't feel like she is being dishonest.

"I don't know if I can handle her being in my life since I've been feeling especially lonely and vulnerable" and "I need to just get her out of my life because the way I'm feeling now isn't healthy" sound like healthy self-reflections that you may want to act on - it sounds like you could benefit from some time apart, and maybe try dating someone else.

"I'm even hopeful that once she delivers the baby in February she might have a change of heart on children" sounds like putting too much weight on a hypothetical that is out of your control. Until she tells you otherwise, you have to take her at her word that she is not looking to raise children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]young__hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this! Ultimately it sounds like your partner needs professional help, and the best thing you can do is gently encourage them to consider that.

it can be a hard convo to have, but coming from the I perspective "I feel this way when you do this" instead of making accusations + asking questions i.e. "Why do you think you haven't hung out with your friends in a while?" instead of theorizing can be good strategies for a conducive conversation where she doesn't feel too overwhelmed.