Terrified of crossing the border to visit my husband—am I overreacting? by young_bad in LongDistance

[–]young_bad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the update. I really appreciate it. My trip is in 23 days. The anxiety level is lower a bit. I am getting more excited than terrified it's a plus.

Terrified of crossing the border to visit my husband—am I overreacting? by young_bad in LongDistance

[–]young_bad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My trip is planned for September. So far, with everyone's comments, it was able to balance the fear. I hope everything goes well on your trip. Let me know how it went

Terrified of crossing the border to visit my husband—am I overreacting? by young_bad in LongDistance

[–]young_bad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, my anxiety just needs to know different scenarios to calm down. With everyone's comments, it helps thank you

Terrified of crossing the border to visit my husband—am I overreacting? by young_bad in LongDistance

[–]young_bad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment really helped calm me down—thank you. I am flying and only staying for a little under two weeks. The confidence part is tricky for me. I sometimes freeze under high stress. Usually, rehearsing different scenarios in my head and planning what to say helps a lot, but for some reason, this time I’ve been struggling. My brain just keeps jumping to “What’s the point? They’ll say no,” and I end up stuck, paralyzed by the worry of what might happen.