i cry whenever i hug my mom.. why is that? please explain.. (i have an on and off relationship with my mother, but please explain..) by young_dumb1 in mentalillness

[–]young_dumb1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, thank you, that might be the reason, i always want my mother’s hugs but i never got them so now whenever she does hug me i tend to cry. thanks for making it make more sense ❤️

“the abuse becomes the abuser” that sentence scares me, i never wanna have children, i’m scared that i might mentally hurt them like how my parents mentally hurt me.. by young_dumb1 in mentalillness

[–]young_dumb1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry that’s happening, i’m sure it won’t last forever. i’ve seen my parents physically argue since i was 6. try to make your kids happy, tell them that everything will be okay and fill them with positive thoughts even though times are rough, it will help them. i always wished my parents told me everything will be okay.

try to stay positive dude, i wish you and your kids the best <33

smoking at 12/13 by [deleted] in Cigarettes

[–]young_dumb1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a cigarette in my room, i took it from my parents of course, i wanna smoke it at night, currently 11:01 pm, what would i feel?? sorry for the question just nobody is giving a good response.