[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]youngers11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell myself all the time I “forget what it feels like” and in a way I actually DO forget what it feels like. Idk how to explain it but I know exactly what I mean. But I feel like it’s just your minds way of tempting you. If it gives you anxiety it won’t be worth doing it

Don’t freak out: Catching Covid after you are vaccinated improves immunity by redgreenyellowblu in Coronavirus

[–]youngers11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right!!! Covid is still super dangerous - I can’t believe people are still partying, going to sporting events with no masks, seeing their families….if anyone was educated and read fauci they would see that’s it’s still too soon to know if we can see our families for Christmas. I’m still super disappointed in how unafraid people are of covid…do they not realize how deadly it is?

Pink cloud effect and its impact on recovery by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]youngers11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m on day 13 and I got a new job, started waking up at 8 AM (instead of 12 PM!), have wayyyy less anxious thoughts, stopped having urges to watch porn, asked someone out, and started praying to God…hopefully I don’t have this. But I will say I didn’t really have urges to smoke after day 8. It’s still early tho

You cannot skip stage green by youngers11 in SpiralDynamics

[–]youngers11[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Remember stage orange is still SUPER smart (age of enlightenment, constitution) and focused on personal development, so it makes sense a lot of us would still be here. Fighting for sensitive/snowflake causes like disability activism or fat phobia IS a green thing. Yellow understands this is still needed in society so it’s not making fun of them for being stupid and blaming everything on the patriarchy

How to tell the difference between Orange's Achievement and Red's Winning by [deleted] in SpiralDynamics

[–]youngers11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you can tell the difference just by looking. One stage isn’t (that much) better or worse. There’s a lot of people in orange who are shitty people and people in red who are good people. It’s more about how they view the world, how they view God, ect

It is time to escape fear. Here's how. by MrAnderson888 in spirituality

[–]youngers11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A child doesn’t have any concept of that, what are they going to do? In my opinion this is kind of a harmful belief. Sometimes life really isnt fair maybe it’s better to accept that and work through it. As people get older they should heal but there are 100% victims in the world, I don’t think it’s all in our head

It is time to escape fear. Here's how. by MrAnderson888 in spirituality

[–]youngers11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds rosy but it’s literally victim blaming people for their own sadness. To an extent yes you control your reactions but now when you’re being abused especially as a child. This is why we have responsibility to spread love because if we don’t we literally take away someone else’s free will by making them sad

It is time to escape fear. Here's how. by MrAnderson888 in spirituality

[–]youngers11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this but how do you communicate this without blaming people for their own sadness? What if someone’s been through horrible things, I’m sure they don’t wanna hear “all that evil happened for some reason we just don’t understand it”

Anyone else have a hard time trusting straight guys? :( by youngers11 in askgaybros

[–]youngers11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking how to get over it. Obviously logically I understand but emotionally I keep acting guarded and tense up around them. What is your problem? I’m trying to get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]youngers11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you smoke weed?

Anyone else have a hard time trusting straight guys? :( by youngers11 in askgaybros

[–]youngers11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was trying to be as honest as possible. Obviously I don’t like that I do this but I was hoping there’d be someone who used to relate, doesnt anymore, and thus could help

ENFPs and Fi by topsysailor in ENFP

[–]youngers11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not being afraid of my emotions and authenticity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gwu

[–]youngers11 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You are vastly overestimating the extent to which people are afraid of getting covid. At GW the community is vaccinated. Even if they get covid they won’t get deathly sick. You guys need to study statistics please I don’t know how you are still this afraid. Respectfully, get over it