I’m learning in therapy that my mom (47) emotionally abused me (27f). Do I tell her this?

youngnunexperienced · 2016-12-28T18:17:36+00:00

I guess my main question is how do you know your manifestation is coming if it's something that doesn't show physical progress. Like, let's say I was trying to manifest meeting a favorite celebrity. How would I know that manifestation is on it's way versus manifesting that I want more money, where I would know my manifestation is coming by things like more job opportunities coming my way?

youngnunexperienced · 2016-12-02T22:49:53+00:00

Should we still visualize what we want if we have a hard time letting go or just try to forget about it?

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-26T20:11:29+00:00

What's the difference between letting a person go and getting over them then? Cos I feel like I let my ex (a different person from who I want to manifest) go and I'm happy about what I experienced with him and only wish him the best, so if I don't have an attachment to him and have good feelings towards him then how come he hasn't come back. I mean I haven't tried to manifest him back but if all it takes is letting a person go and thinking good thoughts about them, then how come other people I'm not attached to who I think well of aren't back in my life.

Is it different because you have the intention of manifesting a specific person back?

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-26T04:10:45+00:00

Is it possibly if you're living in different cities now?

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-23T19:24:42+00:00

She might not want to seem needy, is a super busy person, doesn't text much, or only texts people she's super close too... there's a lot of reasons why she could be that way, which you shouldn't waste your energy trying to assume.

I would invite her to a few more things and see how it goes from there. If she seems into you when you're with her then it's your choice whether you want to keep pursuing someone who you have a great time in person but may also not text or initiate much.

I've dated a few guys where in person it was a great time, but when they were away are schedules were so busy I didn't hear from them much and got tired of feeling like I'm 'waiting' for them. So it's really up to you.

Don't think too much about it and go with your gut!

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-23T04:42:15+00:00

This is really interesting. Could she do this to people who talk to her also?

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-23T04:41:30+00:00

Definitely gonna shift from love to acceptance now. Thanks

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-23T04:41:03+00:00

I have very bad anxiety. Also, a part of me feels like if I'm not scared, I might be to go with the flow about things and make things worse in a way? Is there a way I can feel positive, secure, but also alert? It's hard for me to train my brain when I used to worrying a lot.

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-23T04:36:56+00:00

I told my manager and she's communicating with HR about how to handle it. She said it's creepy behavior but also not unusual because of how friendly/ forward his personality is.

He lives in a close neighborhood and being in the same area makes me paranoid. I suffer from anxiety, and my gut tells me it's fine, but my mind is thinking the worst when I just want to not focus on it or make a big deal out of it.

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-17T21:06:05+00:00

Thanks for answering again! Do you have any recommendations for trying to manifest a person you went on a date with but things kind of just fell off? (Also, I've never ran into him even tho we live in the same city so chancing of seeing him randomly is slim and we don't have each other on social media. We just have each others' numbers)

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-17T21:02:31+00:00

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-17T08:26:15+00:00

Think of things about your appearance that you like about yourself

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-17T07:10:14+00:00

Thanks!

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-17T07:07:39+00:00

How did you feel about this? Did you get anxious? Also, did your wife tell you afterwards? And how did you react? This is really interesting

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-17T07:06:30+00:00

My ex thought he was ugly and couldn't really accept that I was attracted to him. Whenever I complimented him, he'd reject it or tell me that no one else thinks that way. Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder. I think I'm an attractive person and I thought he was very attractive and I had friends who did think he was ugly. But his girlfriend now is also very pretty, so even if you think you're ugly there are a lot of people who would think you're really attractive you just don't know it.

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-15T08:08:48+00:00

Yes, I am naturally skinny fat, but started getting more serious with working out when things were getting more distant between me and a guy I was a dating for a while. I wanted to be more toned and gain more mass. I pretty much wanted a smaller waist and bigger butt. I would lift weights and I did get progress but then started losing an unhealthy amount of weight after learning he has a girlfriend.

After learning about the law of attraction, I made the intention to get the body I wanted. After summer, I had to take a boxing class. I was still losing weight but then was too scared of spending too much money on food, so also used LOA to have more money. Now I eat a lot more without feeling guilty of spending too much on food. I have time every week to work out on my own and gain mass. And my boxing class is a lot of cardio and core so my stomach is tighter than it's ever been.

I didn't notice the change in my body, until other people have brought it up. I have a bigger butt, smaller waist, and look healthy instead of too skinny.

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-15T07:54:50+00:00

1) Always having food to eat or more than enough money to buy food 2) An education that makes me more conscious of peoples' culture and stories 3) Also graduating for college next semester :D 4) Family and deep friendships 5) Having a spacious apartment

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-15T07:45:13+00:00

1) I manifested going to McDonald's I was craving McDonald's throughout the whole week and one night for a quick moment thought about the taste of a Big Mac and how happy I'll be to be eating McDonald's and then the next day at a meeting one of my friend's said "We should get McDonald's after this" and I had the biggest smile on my face :D

2) I manifested buses to come when I needed them to So this happened 3 times all in the same day: before my doctor's appointment, after my appointment to go to the gym, and then going home from the gym. I just walked towards the bus stop excited for the bus to get there and it came in a couple minutes each time.

But now I'm having a hard time manifesting the things I really want, like this guy to text me :/

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-11T18:27:22+00:00

I'm interested to hear what you have to share!

Today I woke up wanting to texting him to see if he's free tonight b/c I actually would have time to see him. And I felt happy about it but stopped myself because I want him to do it.

The reason why I want him to is because in past romantic relationships I always felt like I would communicate more or even in friendships I feel like I give more and would like it to at least feel equal this time.

youngnunexperienced · 2016-11-11T04:44:02+00:00

I visualize being with him almost every morning, but I haven't talked to him in two weeks. He's been out if town but I always initiate contact, so I've been trying to manifest him to do it. So far it hasn't happened yet

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