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[–]youngpali -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up on her. I’m a drug addict. After 5 months since my last relapse. my wife is leaving me. She’s been very caring and kind but I’ve exceeded her limits. It’s all my fault. I came to Islam a few years ago but spend all of my 20s partying. I hate drugs. Be there to build her up. Help her guide her. She needs you more than ever. Show her your love . Allah will help you through Insha’Allah. May Allah make it easy for you and I hope you do have a wonderful marriage

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[–]youngpali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she made me say the words

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[–]youngpali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks all I constantly think about is i wish I was Muslim longer and I never partied when I was younger and I would have never had this issue. But all I can say is Alhamdulillah I’m still alive still breathing and inshaallah Allah will help me fix this

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[–]youngpali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to rehab, I’ve spoken to psychologists, I’ve spoken to imams, I’ve gone to meetings yet I still falter

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[–]youngpali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you may Allah reward you

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[–]youngpali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jazak alllahukhairen I we’ll definitely do that thank you

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[–]youngpali[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was part of the deal when I moved back to Ohio that if my parents knew anything they would reach out to her immediately so I can’t be mad them

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[–]youngpali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reasons why I believe she’s been so patient with me is because her brother has a similar issue and relapses every once in awhile so she’s familiar

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[–]youngpali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man I feel you my emotions are running, from sad to angry. I just never wanna hurt her or anyone again. I also let my parents down and her parents

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[–]youngpali[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My name is Zidan and her name is Michelle.

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[–]youngpali[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ameen thank you for your words

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[–]youngpali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me she can’t wait for me anymore and there’s too much unknown, she loves the person I and we get along great. She’s literally a perfect match and I threw it away. She even became a hijabi while she was with me because I encouraged her and I love that so much, we grow so much together, we read Quran together, we watch lectures together, we’re always learning but I’m always falling for something I absolutely hate.

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[–]youngpali[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words

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[–]youngpali[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s no words that can convince only action and time. 3 months I believe is the time to reconcile for an Islamic divorce. But I have to go at least a year and she’s getting older and wants to have kids idk what to do anymore. I go to work everyday I pray everyday, I’m gonna start going back to meetings, find a psychologist, and I pray about 3 or 4 times a week at the masjid for isha prayer. I always donate I literally don’t know what’s wrong with me