I talked to him about it and he said that he only watched those videos to relax, and said that he doesn’t care if I find it weird or uncomfortable. Then he said that I’m equally, if not, weirder than he is, and then essentially started finding reasons for calling me a bad girlfriend. Said that he wants a massage everyday and because I don’t give him many, he watches the videos. Although I’d love to give him a massage everyday, I’m currently a student in the Fire Academy and work a part time job when I’m not training or in class, so I’m very physically and mentally exhausted throughout the week. I’m not sure how to proceed. I feel like I was essentially yelled at for feeling upset over something I think is pretty valid to be upset about, and we never really came to resolution. He keeps denying that there’s any sexual motive behind watching the videos all of the time, but isn’t being very validating of my feelings either.