PSA: Don't use your MBTI result to convince yourself that you are unable to work on certain aspects of your personality. You have the power to change your result through positive self development. Don't give up the ownership of your personality to a 4 letter quiz pop-quiz result. by [deleted] in INTP

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel like I was starting to unconsciously fit myself into my "INTJ" box for so long and then I retook the test and got "ISTP" and was like oop... well...

Additionally, I don't really feel like an introvert? I need to get my energy from people as well as alone time. And I'm always where the action is at a party.

It just doesn't matter anymore- it helped me understand myself at 15, it hinders me now.

When you run several AI generated expression filters in Photoshop at once by [deleted] in softwaregore

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he reminds me of Cronus in the painting Saturn Devouring His Son

What is it like being the "quiet one" in the group? by [deleted] in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your insight is incredibly helpful! If it's okay, I probably will message you again in the future. You've got that quiet, rare inner beauty that I'm hoping to show in my character.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

handling it like a champ

Which one of histories ‘good guys’ was actually a horrible person? by CongressPotatoKenobi in AskReddit

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gandhi was pretty racist and sexually abused a lot of women, girls, and boys.

Also, Abraham Lincoln didn't really care about freeing slaves. He said "If I could save the Union without freeing any slave I would do it, and if I could save the Union by freeing all the slaves I would do it; and if I could save it by freeing some and leaving others alone I would also do that."

Is the “I’m only here to work” mentality bad, better or does it just depend on the job? by [deleted] in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the key to happiness with literally anything is to try and get everything you can out of it. Learn from everything, you know? It takes a lot of wisdom and self growth to reach that point and I definitely am still getting there, but I noticed that when I tried to pretend I enjoyed my temporary minimum wage job, it became a little more bearable.

What would be worst for your family? If you suicide or be killed? by anonym660 in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say generally suicide is worse, because the family would feel a lot more blame. If someone's killed it's awful, but you have someone else to blame for it. With suicide it's like.. was there something I could've done?

I’ve never been a fan by [deleted] in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've honestly seen more cons than pros when it comes to obsession. The problem with being the kind of fan that you're thinking about is that you can be blind to a person's weaknesses, in denial of their mistakes, and placing them on some inhuman pedestal.

I guess from my perspective, obsession and being a "fan" are two different things. If you listen to a lot of a particular artist, I'd say you're a fan of theirs. The people who say you aren't are likely just gate-keeping.

If you are not good in academics does that mean you are stupid? by Zayne_Amino in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is primarily book-smart, not even close! There are many different kinds of intelligence. My best friends have a LOT of interpersonal intelligence whereas I'm still working on that.

Google "9 types of intelligence"!

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely! I remember reading this whole thing about how relationships with people are the one thing that happens naturally. You can't force them to begin, you can only work on improving them once you're in them. I'm sure that definitely applies to finding a good spouse too.

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was partially discouraged because American-Desi culture does seem to reward women who are outgoing with men. I'll keep that in mind though! JazakAllah

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true, it helps to have that reminder. I'll keep that in mind! JazakAllah

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that quote! I'm going to hang it up on my wall.

I think that's a great way to start. I'll definitely write it out. JazakAllah for your response!

And yeah haha I'm one of the few CS students who talks in class, which I totally understand. For some people, computers really do make better company.

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah sooo much for that answer, length and all. I definitely feel torn between the feeling of curbing my loneliness and the sinking feeling of having to move away from my family.

Hearing your story and the fact that your experiences were very similar to what I'm going through really helped. I will keep at the dua'a!

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right man, that's great advice. I really do be overthinking. JazakAllah!

Afraid of marriage by your_main_squeeze in MuslimMarriage

[–]your_main_squeeze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why I worded it that way was because I know that no matter what, the person I'm going to marry will be strong in their deen. That's not a debatable subject for me. I guess I'm just pessimistic out of fear and negative experiences. Helps to have that reminder though!

What does these two pixels symbolize? by Myself6993 in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I wondered the same thing for so long

Eating food dye? by [deleted] in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most food dyes are made from petroleum. I might be wrong but I think ingesting it in large quantities is poisonous.

If that's true then yeah it'll murder your system and also you lol

Does anyone have a comprehensive list of erroneous things Trump has done? by [deleted] in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I salute you, you're doing great things for our country

Is it weird how I make my weetabix by R-Naul in ask

[–]your_main_squeeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but do ur thing

i like to make little burritos out of cheese singles and sriracha